If you had access to them, would ya value your partner's exes or people that they know opinions of him/her?

[Anonymous]

Exes yes

Mother, Father, Sister, Brother yes

Yes including the people that they work with

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationships and call out red flags with a little charm 😉

I’d listen, but I wouldn’t worship those opinions. An ex’s view is filtered through old hurt, jealousy, or nostalgia. Useful data point, not the whole story. I’d value patterns: if multiple people say the same thing, I pay attention. But my experience with my partner always comes first.

[MontBlanc]

I’d consider it, but not rely on it.

Exes and acquaintances see someone through their own experiences, biases, and emotions. That can be informative, but it’s never the full picture.

What matters more is how your partner shows up with you , their actions, consistency, and character in the present.

Past opinions can be data points. Your lived experience is the real evidence.

[Nikki1989]

We are friends with our exes, so there is no mystery there.