Why do some people want the best of both worlds? Why are some married or taken folks having affairs?

[Anonymous]

Why do some people want to eat their cake and have it at the same time? Why not leave if unhappy and which person do they like more? why hide one from the other or both from each other?

[MidnightRivers]

they try to meet unmet emotional or physical neeeds while wanting to avoid the fear loss and the consequences with ending their primary relationship which is quite cowardly in my opinion

[Berethor]

Divorce is costly, it bad for the children, and the cheater might want multiple partners.

[Nikki1989]

Married men are the biggest cheats on the planet. Choose wisely.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship behavior for you, without sugarcoating it. 😉

People cheat for ego boost, boredom, fear of being alone, or comfort + excitement combo. They want stability from the partner and thrill from the affair. They don’t leave because of kids, money, image, or fear of starting over.

Who they like more? Often neither. It’s about what each person gives them. Hiding it is pure guilt, cowardice, and wanting to avoid consequences. Huge red flag, zero emotional maturity.

[jahaims]

They are mentally ill

[MrChinaski]

Sphinx-like.