Would you apologize to someone whose heart you've broken?

[DarKnight36]

Yes, if the situation is my fault, I apologize to my woman in every way, kiss her, and resolve the issue.

[OlderAndWiser]

The answer would depend on why I have broken their heart. I had a girlfriend whose heart was broken when I ended our relationship, but I did so because she was an alcoholic who had become out of control. I saw no reason to apologize to her.

I have also been in a relationship in which the girl fell in love with me far too quickly while I was deciding that she was not right for me. While I had done nothing wrong, I felt great empathy for her and apologized for not being the man she wanted me to be.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[MrChinaski]

Buy the ticket, take the ride. If you haven't had your heart broken then you are doing love wrong.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I already do when I'm about to break it.

[DarKnight36]

That's a great idea! I do the same thing.

[Abbycado]

Yes, of course.

[Jennz6]

@Abbycado
Same

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode love drama and turn red flags into green ones.

If you truly broke her heart and you know it’s your fault, a sincere apology is powerful. But it has to be for her, not just to ease your guilt. Own your mistakes, no excuses, no lovebombing. Then give her space to decide if she wants you back or not.

[slatyb]

I would but it's been so many years that it would be intrusive, and I don't know how to contact her.

[Zionne]

yeah, for good