If the person you’re attracted to dyes their hair, does that change how much you’re attracted to them?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yes, natural beauty only

No, I don’t care about that

It depends on the color

[LuciusTheOdd]

Well, there is a difference on if I first met them and they dyed their hair, vs I was already into them and they did it.


Pre dyed hair? Would never pursue, already interested? Then would still pursue.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Interesting, why?

[LuciusTheOdd]

@CupcakeTheDestroyer
Well, natural beauty is much more welcoming, easier to approach and more than a bit refreshing, but at the same time, if you’re already interested in someone, and you’ve already spoken with them, then they don’t need that approachable vibe, remove the makeup and remove all the dye, and it’s still the same woman.

I guess a simpler way to say it is that, approaching someone is easier when you know what you’re getting into, but when you already know someone, those things don’t matter because by that point, you would already kind of know and understand her a bit

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

But why does them dying their hair before they meet you make it an issue? Let’s say they’re a natural blonde and chose to dye their hair red a week before meeting you. There’s no visible signs of the dye by that point

[LuciusTheOdd]

@CupcakeTheDestroyer
Well, some guys, myself included see dyes and makeup as a sort of mask.
This is just one of those things a lot of women will probably never agree with me on regardless of logical explanations.

But will explain my thoughts regardless.

Let’s start by creating the definition of a “mask” my definition will be “an object that conceals your face, identity or appearance”

Makeup can actually do all three of those things using optical illusions.

Dying your hair conceals a key part of your appearance, your hair color.

Your perspective on the matter might be vastly different from my own, but that is bound to happen when two people grow up with completely different values.
As a side note: I actually do have experience with makeup, because I’ve distinctly been a street clown and a theater technician, both of which are famous for their use of costumes and makeup.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So does that mean you also don’t date people with tattoos?

[LuciusTheOdd]

@CupcakeTheDestroyer
How big is the tattoo? Full sleeve? Probably not. Facial tattoos? Maybe a couple small ones.
Cover their whole body? Nah.
Eye tattoos? Nah.
A tattoo on on their hand? IDC.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Depends on the color?

In theory, there are colors I wouldn't like much, so that would affect attraction. In practice, I have mostly faced natural colors, the couple of times I've seen unnatural colors I found them pleasant.

[ElenaSeluna]

I’ll be a very superficial person if I cared about that..

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Okay, now imagine your crush with Christmas gradient dye, going from plastic green to tomato red

[ElenaSeluna]

@Maybe_Maybe_not I am sure he’ll be hot as always 😌

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Hmmmmm
Right, I'll call your next crush so we can arrange some special hair DIY

[ElenaSeluna]

@Maybe_Maybe_not let me give you his number 😄

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I can't wait !

[ElenaSeluna]

@Maybe_Maybe_not here you go.. write it down 😄
youtube.com/shorts/WjIg5RV9Uxo?si=dpwETrwDalAX92f1

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

what the actual fuck 😂

[ElenaSeluna]

@Maybe_Maybe_not 😆

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I must yield, you'll get the last word 🛐

[ElenaSeluna]

@Maybe_Maybe_not of course 😌

[Fl2pa]

Once you fall for someone, something that insignificant wouldn't matter.

[Batsy01010101]

Addison changed her hair color often from brown to blond to red currently and i still love her

[queenofcardio]

It wouldn't make a difference.