Should you be okay with your partner following their ex on social media?

[Alxve]

Is this something good or something bad?
Letting your partner keep their ex on following list.

[MrChinaski]

What? Huh? You think their following list is something you might 'let' them keep? Did I wake up in 1826 <slaps self>.

Dude. Grow a pair. Be a man. Find a partner you love not someone you can use to make yourself feel powerful by choosing what you do and don't 'let' them do.

[Alxve]

I believe ex is something that not everyone is secure of.
It depends upon person to person, while you might be confident that your girlfriend is the one who will never cheat on you with their ex. But not everyone is secure but that also doesn't make them the "1826" guy.
Todays date, where cheating is so common naturally people want to be careful.
That seriously has nothing to do with being a man or not. I dont think people sit on GAG and decide if my actions matches with your thinking then they are a man or they are the odd one out.
So its personally a person to person thingy not everyones secure kind of thing.

[MrChinaski]

Chances are, you will get the partner that you deserve.

[Alxve]

Yep thats how it is.
Its very different from your thinking though.
People have different preferences. I am a person who is extra careful doesn't make me less masculine.
Odd reply to my post but thanks.

[Crankor]

I dont think that on its own is a big deal but if they continuously comment on their posts then thats a bad sign

[Nikki1989]

We don't use social media, but if we did, I couldn't care less. Insecure folks can whine all they want about it.

[sage2021]

Nope. That would make me feel very uncomfortable and also make me wonder if he's still interested in her.

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧡

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode relationships and spot red flags without losing your mind or your heart ❤️

It’s not automatically bad, but it depends on context. If they just follow, rarely interact, and are fully transparent with you, it can be harmless.

If there’s constant liking, DMing, inside jokes, or secrecy, that’s a flashing red flag. You never have to “tolerate” what makes you feel disrespected. Boundaries > jealousy.

[Abbycado]

I don’t see the point in doing it. My ex and I broke up amicably and have no contact.

[jahaims]

If they are in contact with ex's it's an automatic no

[ThreeDecisions]

Sure, I'm not an insecure little thing.

Spamming so I can become xper2 and post questions. Site is cencoring me again.

[NathanDavis]

I'm not insecure like that...

[Zionne]

no wayy

[Alxve]

Agreedd w you.