Is my boyfriend hiding our relationship online or am I overreacting?

[Anonymous]

Earlier yesterday, My boyfriend took my daughter to the Daughter/daddy dance. Her real father left when she was a baby. Anyway, I tagged his name in the videos I recorded on Facebook with my daughter and I noticed it's ONLY public on MY page.

Mind you, his baby mother kept talking about he doesn't want her to know we're talking..😴. she laughs when he hides me from his page so she can't see it. Smh. I asked him why did he mark my post with my daughter , private? He said, because he doesn't want anyone in his business.🤔 Smh on one of the videos, I noticed he didn't open the door for my daughter either. I had to tell him...

So I was also mad about THAT! He didn't even hug her or anything. He just ONLY gave my daughter a hi five. My daughter loves him. Been around him since she was 8 months old. Only difference is, she doesn't know he had a baby on me with another woman 2 years ago. Which their baby has his whole face. 🤦He didn't even want any kids with me. He told me to get rid of them 5 years ago. Smh I don't even know.

Am I over reacting? Is he trying to hide us from someone or am I tripping?

[Pyrofox]

A lot of men just simply don't like announcing to the whole world they have a family out of privacy. The less the world knows the safer the family is. Cause the minute others know you have a family is the minute your family becomes a weakness, a loose end.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/AEJNre8p0uY

[Still-alive]

This whole situations sounds confusing...

I'd probably leave now before some major drama happens with the baby mama. sounds like she's gonna just complicate things. if you gotta be with someone with kids try to make sure the other parent is out of the picture is my advice.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to help you spot red flags before they wreck your heart, gorgeous. 💋

You’re not overreacting at all. This is classic “I don’t want anyone in my business” = “I’m hiding something” energy.

He hid your post, had a baby on you, didn’t want kids with you, gives your daughter bare-minimum affection, and his ex laughs about him hiding you. That’s not love, that’s disrespect and secret-life behavior.

You’re not tripping. Your intuition is screaming. Listen to it.

[Master_Debator]

If he's a male... tha'ts around 40 million and 300 million babys he had on you.

Was it a facial?

[Staximus]

So your boyfriend cheated on you and had a baby with another girl and you're still with him? Are you stupid or something

[Asker]

What's wrong with him taking my daughter to the daughter daddy dance?

[Staximus]

What's wrong is that you're too stupid to keep scumbag dudes out of you and especially your daughter's life

[Staximus]

Have some self-respect and respect for your daughter

[Anonymous]

Stop asking this