My boyfriend hides our relationship?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend's friend told me that my boyfriend had a crush on this girl and it all just started coz she glanced over at him from across the room in their late teens. I don't think she reciprocated, and he was too scared to approach her but he had feelings for her for 3-4 years!

The problem is that I recently found out he still keeps me (and our relationship) a secret from her. Like he'd upload pictures with me and then code it so that she can't see them. They're public pictures, so everyone who has a fb account can see them, except her- he's pretending to her that he's not in a relationship with anyone. Moreover, he also 'still' frequently monitors her fb page. What should I do?

[Vikkrram]

I think it's more into ur mind coz when you discoverd that your boyfriend had a crush on someone but he hides from you. So it's like each and every actions of him is makin u feel insecure.

[Asker]

He hides it from her, not from me. He is hiding me from her

[Vikkrram]

Maybe he doesn't want you to know about her coz everyone don't like to share their past stories...

[Asker]

It's not just his past, he is hiding my relationship NOW from her. He is STILL, to this date pretending as if he is single.

[Vikkrram]

Then i think it's a red signal for you

[Asker]

Why? Would you be worried if you're in a relationship with a girl and she is pretending to be single infront of her 'ex' crush?

[Vikkrram]

Naturally coz if now we are in a relationship and she still hides it from his ex crush that means she still have feelings for her... and maybe who knows want to be wid him.

This is mine opinion i am not saying that your boyfriend is doing or thinking same like this.

[Asker]

Yes, I agree. I understand, that is what is worrying me too

[Sam_The_Savage]

Hun you're just an option for him..
Dump him asap.