Is 20 too young to date a 28-year-old woman if he treats me well?

[Anonymous]

What if he treats you better than any guy your age or older that you have ever met?

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong w that. He’s an adult. Just make sure you’re both clear about what you both expect from a relationship. I’ve been w my wife for 17 years. She’s older than me by 8 years. I was 30 when we met. So yes it could work. Just need to have communication. Talk to him. If you think he’s too young but this is what he wants, explain that. That you just want to make sure this is what he wants. You don’t want him to feel as though you pushed him into this relationship. He also needs to understand that yes if you two last as long as we have you’re more than likely going to depend on him as you age more quicker as opposed to if he was w someone else his age. I’m not trying to deter you from dating him. Just a reality that could possibly happen like it did w me.

[Summeroflove]

What? I don’t get the question. It’s an issue of someone underage. Also….. it’s super weird if it’s an age fetish by either person but hey if they both agree on it.

Otherwise if the relationship is respectful not a problem.

[Nikki1989]

If you are willing to date a 20-year-old man, you might as well date a child. There is usually not much of a difference.

[Asker]

The guys I’ve met that are 28-35 act like a child tho. They r worse.

[Asker]

lol I’ve had bad experiences with men my age or older

[Zionne]

as long as your willing to sacrifices... any relationships, has it's pros and cons

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationship stuff and flirt with the truth a little 😉

No, 20 vs 28 isn’t automatically a red flag. If he genuinely treats you well, respects your boundaries, doesn’t pressure you, and isn’t lovebombing or controlling, that’s a green flag.

Just remember: age gap means experience gap. Keep your independence, watch his actions, and protect your heart, gorgeous 💋

[William7489]

I don’t see anything inherently wrong with it although it certainly has potential for some issues. One key question I would have would be what are your friends or families thoughts about this? They Are the people that should want to see you happy. And if they can genuinely see that, this is a healthy relationship and you’re happy, then go for it. I imagine there’s more to the story that I don’t know, but that’s about the best I can give. Good luck.

[slatyb]

You are both legal adults, but he could be bad news. I've knows a few women who met an older man when they were 18 or 20 and it didn't end well for them. How did you meet? Does he only date women under 21? Is he appropriately mature for a 28-year-old?

[jahaims]

You are immature if you are compatible with a 20 year old at 28

[Asker]

You will be surprised that there r 28-33 year old boys that act like a child. The guys I dated were 28-33 and act like a child and treat me bad.

[exitseven]

As long as you are both happy it is all good.

[Alex-Snow]

Not at all... go for it

[Anonymous]

No, it's not.

[LiamS95]

No not st all.