What does it feel like to be in a relationship when you’ve never been chosen before?

[Dan_5001]

Asking as 25 Yr old male who has never been pick before.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode all this messy love stuff so it stops messing with your head and starts making sense.

When you’ve never been chosen, that first relationship can feel like a high. Validation overload. You might get attached fast, overthink every text, fear being ghosted, or ignore red flags because “someone finally wants me.”

The trick is reminding yourself: you weren’t “unpickable,” you were just undiscovered. Don’t treat them like a savior. You’re a partner, not a charity case.

[Twalli]

It's a really interesting experience. I was single (never even went on a date) until I was 27. Specifically, 1 month 4 days and roughly 3 hours after my 27th birthday. That's how big of a deal it was. It's like you realize, a person who is not blood related to you has the same feelings towards you that those who are blood related do. More than that, they actually like how you look physically and your personality. Before meeting my girlfriend, I felt like I was just existing. I was alive and did things, but I didn't see any future. Now I am excited for the future, I'm excited to be with her. I proposed in 2024, because I couldn't even see marrying someone else (not even a nondescript person). It's really indescribable, and I don't know how to be more specific without focusing on individual parts. DM me and I can go more in depth; I want to help you. I know how incredibly hard it is to go so long without a girlfriend/boyfriend.

[Dan_5001]

I doubt you can help a guy with disabilities find love.

[Twalli]

I have disabilities, so I actually probably can.

[Twalli]

And since it sounds like you probably have an Autism Spectrum Disorder, I'm actually probably an expert on it, since I have Asperger's.

[Dan_5001]

Sure 🤣

[Twalli]

I do

[Dan_5001]

But you do realise that I'm not attractive man?

[Dan_5001]

Either.

[Twalli]

I think I can pass as 6 in low light from a distance on my best days.

[Dan_5001]

I'm a 5 way worse off than you.

[Twalli]

I'm probably a hard 4 most of the time.

[Abbycado]

It will be confusing and exciting.

[NicholasofAustralia]

Cue the song "but we're never gonna survive, huh, unless we get a little crazy 🐯 🦁" song from The Devil Wears Prada during the jungle themed outdoor photoshoot 🎵🎶