Did You Know Why Men Always Try To Fix What You Are Upset About?

[sage2021]

youtube.com/shorts/eMkIhrYSyxQ?si=ho1KBWuSQAca-3zr


Very short but effective clip!

This makes so much sense❣️

[glennos89]

Yes we are problem solvers. Woman always came to me with their problems and always tried to give them solutions for their problems but they never listened to me which kinda pissed me off sometimes when they started talking to me again about the same fucking issues.

I didn't understand back then that woman dont want their problems fixed when they vented about it to me. They just want to share their story to get emotional support. They didn't want to hear me telling them how to fix it.

I know a lot of man are still trying to fix womans problems without knowing that she doesn't need solutions😂

Man are practical and woman emotional. But we dont seem to understand eachother all that well

[sage2021]

@glennos89

I hope you watched the short clip because she explains it perfectly.
She said that when a woman is telling a guy about her problems, and she only wants him to listen and not to try to fix it for her, that she needs to tell him upfront before she tells him her problem. That makes perfect sense to do that.
The clip was very enlightening.
So now you can ask her if she just wants you to listen to her or does she want you to fix it for her.

[glennos89]

@sage2021 that's a great idea thanks for that 🙏🏻

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

God Damn! I feel so understood!

[sage2021]

@Ariesman81Nshiit

This was very enlightening to me for sure.
I'm so glad that you watched the clip and feel understood now.🙂

[ohsheeT]

I know for me is because I can fix anything that's what I do for a living I fix things when I see somebody hurt or in pain I don't like it I have to kind of pull them in close and say tell me what's wrong because I will fix it I don't want to see them go through the things that they go through because that makes me go through it too and I can feel everything that they go through all I have to do is look into their eyes and I feel it I become it and I don't like it so this is a way that I connect even deeper this is how I could just speak with my eyes but if she won't let me in to help her I will go crazy because that energy is so powerful and it's like it has it hands around my neck I can't breathe and I want to say wait wait just let me have it let me handle it I will take the pain you relax because I want it over and done with I want there to be an answer I want happiness always it's just who I am the way I've always been the way I will always be

[Zack-Bann]

I’ll never understand why women prefer being listened to instead of getting some free and easy help.


If someone came in with a solution to all my problems I’ll take it with a smile, why would I prefer to keep my problems just to have something to complain about?

[exitseven]

This is exactly what us happening. Guys are problem solvers

[Sal_Monella]

We do not like to hear rants. We like to be useful.

[AgentG111]

Yes, most men are fixers. If you come to us with a problem we down what we can to fix it

[Jen_oic]

Men just think they can fix anything

[sage2021]

@Jen_oic

And a lot of them can! Bless their hearts because they try at least. And they can be more successful than we give them credit for.
This clip made me realize a lot that I didn't know about men and since I happen to love men, this is good to know.

[glennos89]

@ Jen_oic Some of us haven't figured out yet that woman can't be fixed so they still try 😂😋

[NathanDavis]

why?