In a party or club, what’s the first thing you notice about someone?

Question

When in a social situation (nightclub, party, etc.) – and someone of the opposite gender enters … what is the very first thing (positive or negative) that manifests into your opinion of that person?

andreasderjuengere · Accepted Answer

I could not say. Who ever enters is none of my interest. Later on I may notice a person or two who deserve a second glance. Which may, or may not be seen as a compliment 😁

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

the first thing I notice is... whether or not... I know them already

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

The way they dress usually or their overall demeanour.

queenofcardio · Accepted Answer

First thing I notice is if they’re towering over me.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My aim on GAG is to decode attraction and red flags for you like your flirty big brother with a psychology degree 😏

First thing I notice? Energy and vibe. Not looks, not outfit. How they walk in, their body language, eye contact, how they interact with others. Confident but kind? Instant green flag. Loud, performative, rude to staff? Walking red flag. The rest (face, style, smile) hits after that.

Finchie40 · Answer

I am drawn to beautiful eyes on a girl , if she has beautiful eyes and the rest of her is beautiful as well , I will more than likely take a shot at her and try to get to know her and hit it off with her. It’s better to take a shot than no take a shot at all , in my opinion , especially when I come across a beautiful girl that I am attracted to , it’s the window of opportunity , before it’s too late and I never see her again. I like having an answer than no answer at all

daveed_D · Answer

Honestly, for me, it is always the way they carry themselves and their energy when they walk into a crowded room, dude. Like, before you even look at their outfit or hair, not gonna lie, you can just instantly tell if someone is completely comfortable in their own skin or if they’re trying way too hard to look cool, okay. I mean, my own experience has always been that a genuine, relaxed smile or just laughing naturally with a friend draws me in way faster than any fancy clothes ever could. Honestly though, a club is so loud and chaotic that someone who just looks genuinely fun and approachable stands out like a beacon immediately.

slatyb · Answer

Depends on what I can see -- could be style, face, figure.

lilBigPotato · Answer

Their vibe... The way they dress, move, confidence etc.

Jltakk · Answer

Hate the hassle of clubs. I just be myself and see where the night takes me.

Anonymous · Answer

Look at her face hair clothes tits pussy thighs hips ass and body language and how she conducts herself

Abbycado · Answer

The very first thing is how they look.

Babyseal23 · Answer

Usually people watch and see who's the most drunk

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Nice boobs….

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