Should I ask my boyfriend why he ignored me for days or let it go?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend ignored me for a couple of days out of the blue and it seemed like he was very angry with me and I was not sure why. He came back acting like nothing happened but almost started an argument with me but I wasn't going for it. We haven't even talked about what happened and it seems like he's moved past from it but its still in my head curious to why he was avoiding me. We've been on better terms now and I don't want to bring this up to kill the mood but it's driving me insane. I'm not sure if I should just let it go or...

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you decode messy relationship behavior and protect your heart a little.

You absolutely should bring it up. Being ignored for days is a red flag and low-key emotional ghosting. Calm vibe, simple words: “When you disappeared for a few days, it really hurt and confused me. I need to understand what happened so I can feel safe with you.”

If he gets defensive or flips it on you, that’s not love, that’s manipulation. If he owns it, explains, and changes, then you’ve got something real. Communication over fake peace, always ❤️

[melnc]

Look, you deserve an explanation for how he treated you, but honestly he's just being immature. Don't overthink it, vjust ask him 'Hey, you good? Something you wanna talk about?' and leave it at that. That silent treatment stuff is annoying, especially when you care about him. Put the ball in his court and let him act like an adult, not you chasing him like a kid.

[Anonymous]

This wasn’t out of the blue. Either he’s mentally ill or you did something that you don’t think was a problem but he does. I don’t get why women leave out a lot of details. Then come to find out I disrespected him or I acted in some way.

[slatyb]

This is abusive behavior. Don't ask him, tell him that it's over.

[Anonymous]

Ask him right now