How would you feel if your partner always sought opposite-sex friends for comfort after arguments?

[TheLovelyWoman]

[AI Opinion]

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If my partner always ran to opposite‑sex friends for comfort after arguments, I’d feel disrespected and emotionally sidelined. That’s emotional outsourcing and borderline emotional cheating. Processing with a friend sometimes is fine, but “always” is a pattern. The priority should be repairing with you, not building intimacy elsewhere.

[Calyptomaniac]

The argument scenario is irrelevant. You would go to them for comfort if you broke a nail or stubbed your toe. Those would be difficult for you to overcome without the support of your male friends. They are truly there to help you through any tragedy.

[soe11]

• To be honest I can't say anything about.
• Me and my never had big arguments.
• Occasionally we upset each other.
• Normally we always happy and healthy living.

[loveslongnails]

I couldn't say, as my partner and I rarely argue to the point where we need outside comforting.

[Staximus]

If I had a girlfriend or wife and she pulled that bullshit, I would give her the boot after the first time that happened.

[Paige2006]

Not very happy

[dudeinohio]

I would be against that

[CubaPirate]

Single