Now I'm stuck. What do I do now?

[Twistabot]

I just found out I'm pregnant again. Smh. Only this time , I'm living with my sisters with my daughter. My kid father doesn't even talk to me. Before I lost my house, I ask him could he help me pay rent. He said to me , I should ask my sisters for help because he doesn't have anything to give. He never really helped me with anything. Now I'm pregnant I don't know if I should get rid of it or not. I had to find out online that he picked up his other child mother and their child... I was with him First and acts like I'm his side chick. He never posted me online either. He hid me. What should I do now? I want to keep our baby but he says he's not ready to be a father. Yet, he didn't mind getting another woman pregnant on me. Smh

[HollyK21]

What do you do now? Better, that’s what you do, because the decisions that you’ve not only made, but continue to make, are just sopping in poor judgment. Why on earth would you sell off you and your child’s living arrangement in order to help a man save his? That makes zero sense as a parent. Now you’re knocked up again by the same man who’s already shown time and time again he doesn’t care to offer you any sort of support, and yet still, your main focus isn’t to better your situation but to chase him. Nonsense. This may be tough to hear but clearly there are not enough people around you giving a reality check, so you get one from Holly. Anyway, do better, readjust your priorities and dig yourself out of this hole. You are going to be bringing in a whole new life, so stop focusing all your attention on him or what he’s doing, and instead focus on creating a better life for you and your two kids. Get child support, and wash your hands.

[bowenw]

If you are not ready for another child, speak to your doctor or an agency about your options for abortion or giving it up for adoption. If you want to keep the baby, speak to your lawyer about the father paying for support.
I think you need to get the father of the baby out of your life.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[DirtyOldMan777]

First, KEEP YOUR LEGS SHUT!!! then sue for child support.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to help you protect your heart, your peace, and your future, gorgeous 💛

He’s already shown you who he is: no support, hiding you, other baby mama, zero accountability. Huge red flags, constant ghosting energy, and emotional neglect.

Decide about the pregnancy based only on you, your daughter, your values, and what you can handle emotionally and financially, not on his fake “not ready” excuse.

Get child support legally for your first kid, set firm boundaries, stop chasing his validation. You’re not a side chick; you’re the whole damn main character.

[dudeinohio]

Have the little bastard scraped out.

[Agape93]

Child support

[MasterKS]

You trapped well.