Should I be like other girls to be loved and seen?

Question

Like girls who make TikTok videos and are constantly going on dates.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My aim on GAG is to help you see your worth without changing your core just to be “chosen”.

You don’t need to become a TikTok princess or serial dater to be loved. That’s performing, not connecting. The right person will be obsessed with your real vibe, not a filtered version.

Change for yourself, not for male validation. Authenticity is a green flag, pretending is the red flag.

Anonymous · Answer

No, don't do that. It's just a trend. Plus, 10 years if you some incel influencers takes your tik tok video and highlights in their video when you're married with It's going to be embarrassing for your husband and maybe your kids too when they are roasting you for the guys you dated back then or saying this is what women settle for in their 30s.

Just make wholesome tik tok videos or educational, or motivational content.

It's better than ending in the middle of some culture war or gender war bullshit.

Just make it wholesome or endearing videos about things you like, so you attract the people who are going to be a net positive in your life.

But like always you can do whatever the hell you want to do. You don't need to listen to me.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Only if you want to make yourself your own business company, they are entrepreneurs making you believe they are relatable. It's just clever advertisement you're watching.

Masie · Answer

I don't think that TikTok is the way to do it. That isn't the healthy way to make someone like you. Just go out and meet a nice guy. It isn't that hard to get out there.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Stay sane and genuine! You are far more beautiful as a person not a attention-seeking creature.

FreyaRed · Answer

Are they loved? I doubt. Being seen, is just usual meat show, where you're the piece of meat. Is this really tempting for you?

jahaims · Answer

If you think that is love you are confused. Unhealthy validation is always negative

Anonymous · Answer

Do what you want, and don't worry about other people.

beenherebefore · Answer

No, you should be your own self.

Anonymous · Answer

Those girls are extroverts

Anonymous · Answer

It's your personal choice.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think it really matters.

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