Do you think this was rude of her?

[Anonymous]

Hung out with this woman. She usually reposts our hangout pics

Recently we took a selfie which I tagged her. She posted a generic photo (not including us) but didn’t repost the selfie

Why? I kinda find it insulting. And also feel she doesn’t even care I’ll feel bad or embarrassed.

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You think it’s out of jealousy or she doesn’t want people to assume we are very friendly

[Anonymous]

I remember someone once asking Bill Bruford why he doesn't play drums the same way John Bonham does. Bill's response was, "Because John Bonham's already got that style covered."
Maybe she figured that, since you already posted it, she didn't have to. Have you tried asking her.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I can only assume she didn't like how she looked on her own selfie, she probably looked it over and found something she didn't like in the image about herself so she didn't post it.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy dating and social signals for you like a flirty little lie detector 😏

Yeah, it’s a bit rude, but it’s also a low-effort red flag, not a crime. She might not like how she looked, not want people to assume you’re “a thing”, or she’s keeping options open.

Either way, your feelings are valid. Mirror her energy, don’t chase her validation.

[Iron_Man]

What is she to you? Is there something you’re not telling us?

[Anonymous]

No big deal

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think she did it intentionally. Maybe she forgot.

[Asker]

Def intentional
We tagged each other right after

[Asker]

She even liked my story

[Opinion Owner]

Nah. She just forgot. People get busy.

I mean, she liked your story. How much more do you expect her to do?

[Asker]

I know her well enough to know she didn’t repost that selfie on purpose I’m just not sure why

[Opinion Owner]

Why are you so sure she did it on purpose?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she got tired of going through all the effort of reposting pics. Maybe she figured liking your story would be enough.

[Asker]

I’m a girl with good intuition. Rarely is it wrong.

I am almost sure it was on purpose but it may not have been malicious

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you think she didn’t post it?

[Asker]

A mix of she thinks I don’t have many other friends and wants to feel powerful over me and I look nicer in the pic

If it was just she was uncomfortable she would have said so when we clicked the pic

[Asker]

Also I actually chose the nicest pic of both me and her (not only of me) to post to be considerate towards her so she will not feel bad

I guess female friendships can never be without leg pulling

[Opinion Owner]

Those are both malicious motives. If you really think that, maybe you shouldn’t hang out with her.

I didn’t think she was uncomfortable. I just thought it wasn’t that important to her.