Are you attracted to younger or older?

[Anonymous]

There's something about older women that's different, am I imagining it or do they seem more feminine?

[CarolineWhizz]

I'm in my mid 30s which I guess some people consider to be "older". I DO get a lot of attention from younger guys. I like it. They often tell me that they find me sexy because, as I work in a legal office I have to wear smart tailored skirt suits with pantyhose (or stockings) and high heels. They can't get enough of that. From what they have said they find the way that younger women dress is a bit, well, boring... I've had sex quite a few times still wearing a skirt, stockings and heels. It's a visual thing for them, I guess.

[Asker]

Interesting, I guess where you are they fancy all that, I suppose older women in heels and stockings and stuff give them like a mature effect if some sort

[midnightmoon05]

Generally speaking male 2-5 years older than me. Hubby is 7 years older than me.

10 years older is too much … seems to work for other people. I was never into that.

At the end it’s how us two work together to make the relationship/marriage fun and to keep the spark going through ups and downs of life.
I think many forget what it takes to build a good long lasting relationship.

[Asker]

Well yes that's for certain midnight, those are all important things to consider once in a relationship.

[browsingthroughthe]

So if he's 10 years older, not gonna last but you've seen others make it work. And couple who are under the 10 year age gap, is the sweet spot or max. He's 32 she's 22 max? Lol 😆

[been_burned_b4]

There was a time when I was in a relationship with a woman seven (7) years my senior. She was wise regarding life experiences and intimacy was crazy good however, because of the age difference we often times had problems relating/communicating with one another. Probably because we were nearly from two different generations. Of course, like most men I would very much like to be in a relationship with a younger female however, would the same hurdles (only in reverse) be presented? Any advice would be most appreciated.

[Finchie40]

I am leaning towards younger but it doesn’t mean I wouldn’t date someone my age or slightly older , I just been having better experiences with younger girls’ lately so that’s why I am leaning towards a younger girl this time around , My ex was 4 years older than me and she ended up leaving me after 20 years of marriage , so that’s another reason I am leaning towards younger 😂

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never been age conscious, other than obviously avoiding as girl who is not legal. I have dated women 20+ years older than me and 20+ years younger (when i was in my early 50’s.). My Wife is 9 years younger than me.

[DishLady]

A little younger/older within a 5-year radius.

[HawkPerception]

So if you meet an ideal guy and he's 7 years younger, that's a no-go?

[sage2021]

I have been watching some videos about this very subject.

It seems like more men are looking at older women to date and have successful love relationships with.

And I would have to agree with you that they seem to be more feminine and not afraid to be like that either.

[Asker]

Yes cause it's true, many women nowadays are getting the influence from the wrong influencers and it's effecting how they behave, 30s and up is where the last generations of feminine women are, or at the very least the ones that embrace their femininity.

[sage2021]

That's such a shame.

[Asker]

It really is

[BadApple69]

I’ll go towards the younger myself. Older women are more set in their ways.
Example: (true) I started dating an older woman and I wanted to spice it up a little. Nothing crazy. Different positions, that type of thing. Everything I wanted to try her answer was “I tried that before, I didn’t like it”. I heard that answer 3 times that night. It wasn’t that she tried all these things before because I’m sure younger girls have too. It’s just that she was so set in her ways that nothing I wanted mattered.


Younger every time!!

[valentina4eva]

im attracted to same age or older, if he’s younger then he would need to be extra mature & in control!!😊😊

[Asker]

Don't worry I'll make sure the person is perfect, and that owns no doll houses. *pats head* 😂

[Asker]

Doesn't own*

[valentina4eva]

😂😂 i donno if many men own giant barbie dollhouses?🤔😅

[valentina4eva]

but when u say “older” are more feminine, what age range is this?🤔🤔 jw

[Asker]

Well it would be very suspicious if they did have a doll house, that would mean it's a trap.

And I think anywhere past the 20s and higher you are reaching the ages I'm talking about

[valentina4eva]

on the one hand, i want to be in the “most feminine” category, but on the other hand, i don’t want to be in the “older” category!!😂😭😂

[Asker]

Well older isn't specifically mentioned as old, it just means you are older than another age 😂

[valentina4eva]

truuuu actually😅😅 good point!!

[Twalli]

Most people I'm attracted to are within my own age group, but young girls can be very attractive. It's just that I am not attracted to them, they're still pretty. I would just find it weird to be attracted to girls who are young enough to be my daughter. My fiancée's eldest niece is 17 years younger than me. She's pretty, but it'd be weird for me to date a girl that much younger than I am.

[Asker]

Well that's cool too of course

[thegreenyogi]

It depends... not too young nor too old for me. I try not to look at age because for me it's just a number. But I will say that it very much depends on the connection. If it's strong age doesn't matter to me.

[Asker]

Well that's probably the healthiest way to look at it, keeping your heart open to the idea of either will work in your favor when seeking for love 👏🏼

[thegreenyogi]

Thank you!!🙃

[Asker]

Np 😆💯

[molonski2]

Certainly younger..

A few old women is only good when you are young , as when women go though menopause you don't want to know most of them , plus there is a lot more early onset menopause in these times , due to horrendous diets of many.

Had a cougar look after me when I was 18 ( she was 27 ) and that was great sexual experience , plus she did everything for me.

But , there comes a time to be a man and take proper responsibility.

[andreasderjuengere]

''older'' women are more ''complete''.

But they often enough turn to feeling and acting ''old''.

It's like walking on the edge of a knife. My own edge is about 10 years wide: mid-40's to end 50's.

Of course there is an allowance for exceptions.

[JHNS98]

As a teenager, I was attracted to a 23-year-old women. Between November last year and roughly May this (2026) year I was acting as if I were attracted to this teenage (17yo) girl, at least if you ask her. I of course tried to find other explainations for what was going on inside of me and what I actually felt, even talking to a phychologist about everything.

The anxiety was brutal, and I even had some depressive episodes about everything.

[Anonymous]

I'm 30, I can date up to 10 years older and 5 years younger.

Any 30 yr old would have to be a special type of immature to want to date a 20 yr old. Either that or they're a sexual predator in some way or form.

[Asker]

Interesting lol

[MrChinaski]

Well I'm attracted to people not their ages. But if pushed I would say younger.

[Asker]

But you don't have a pattern if you looked back at relationships?

[MrChinaski]

Most of my relationships have been similar in age, a couple 1-2 years younger, a couple 1-2 years older. Only one was significantly different and she was about 5 years older, but with the body of someone much younger.

[Kvass]

Older. Only early 30s please, I can make an exception for 20s too

[Asker]

So early thirties is as old as you go? Lol

[Kvass]

For now, yes. I'd only go for an old man when I'm ancient myself

[Asker]

Well at that point you'd just be dating your age 😂

[_Jenny_]

@ChicoFromThe305 I’m 36 years old and I am attracted to younger and older men

[_Jenny_]

@ChicoFromThe305 10 years either way

[Asker]

That's more options I suppose lol

[MrOracle]

The last time I dated an older woman was when I was 6 and she was 7. I think we kissed twice.

All other women have been younger. My girlfriend now is 17 years younger, and will turn 40 soon.

[Anonymous]

Salma hyak is 60 and still attractive but 26 year old Salma in desperado is the hottest woman ever

[Asker]

I have no idea who those are lol

[Opinion Owner]

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[Lliam]

All my girlfriends were younger. The biggest age difference was 6 years.
My wife is 2.5 years younger than me.

[browsingthroughthe]

Wife aside - unless it's her - Lets be real here Liam - who was your favourite or the one who got away?

[browsingthroughthe]

As in - the gap and the reasons is all or how they brought you joy. Not their name or their ID literally 🪪🆔

[browsingthroughthe]

Lol 😆 you know me 😜 bro yo

[Lliam]

The one who was 6 years younger. It had nothing to do with her ago. In fact a woman's age never factored into my attraction to her. It just so happened so happened that all my girlfriends were younger.
But I met that particular lady when I was 36. Her name was Petra. She was German. It turned out that she was 30. We wound up living together for 2 years.
She was my vision of the physical feminine ideal. 5'1"; lovely face, eyes and lips; loose natural, light blonde, shoulder-length curls; flawless, pink and white skin; perfect body; delicate hands; impeccable, petite feet.
She was hypersexual, orgasmic, enthusiastic and extremely skilled.
Out of all the girlfriend I had had since I was 16, she was the first woman I truly loved. I adored everything about her. I would have been happy to spend the rest of my life with her.

She didn't exactly get a way. It's just that, in the end, we simply couldn't have made it as life-long partners. Even though we loved each other, we separated for reasons that are too complicated to go into but had nothing to do with cheating or anything mean.

[YourExLover69]

27 to 38 would be great. Depends upon understanding as well.

[Asker]

Yea I guess there's many things to consider

[PeachyPie93]

I tend to like the same age but a year or two younger or older is fine..

[MissSunshine2]

Usually up to five years younger, or five years older.

[Mark_Est]

Most men like women around 23 years of age. Just facts, have been studied

You are free to like who you like.

[AviatorTom]

Simple answer... YES!

[Asker]

Lmao.

[browsingthroughthe]

As I'm 32, I could still date a woman 20, but I seem to gel best with women aged 20-26 or even 23-26. Lol 🤣😆

And I'm not even as mature as they come lol pun

[Asker]

So at heart you are their age? Interesting lol

[browsingthroughthe]

But I actually can be quite playful yet down to earth mature and isn't that what some women desire from an older man 😋👀 without the vibes of 50s fat sugar daddy

[browsingthroughthe]

Physically I could still pass even for early 20s Chico. The magic of genes and avoiding most bad vices 🗜️

[browsingthroughthe]

Thanks 👍🏻

[Xoirwinkan]

Generally younger since I passed my twenties

[Asker]

Interesting indeed

[Victoria5_]

Definitely, older cause younger would get me locked up.

[Asker]

You can go 2 years younger if you are actually 20 but yea you make a good point 😂

[Anonymous]

Older. Old as Moses, even when I was in middle school. They were hitting on me anyway, even though everyone says they don't ever.

[melnc]

Lately, I’ve found myself drawn to older women and I why.

[melnc]

*don't know why

[ericJackson]

It's depends lol if she's beautiful any age at all 🤣😂

[RavVid]

I think so because a lot of young women aren't.

[Pretendingtobesweet]

Young or older don't trust anyone is the key

[Spencer10]

I am attracted to strong smart and confident... age is much less important.

[Elyaaaa]

I am attracted to older guys but not more than like 5-6 years older than me!

[Asker]

That's fair, I can definitely second that age difference 👍🏼💯

[Eiram5]

Always gone older since I was 14.

[Asker]

I'm going to assume you are more mature for your age

[Mikelv]

Im 47 I like girls 18-30 only not attracted to anyone over 30

[Asker]

Interesting

[Chayce]

Both. But I'd prefer women the same age or older.

[Anonymous]

A little younger. I tried dating 15 years younger than me once and it was a disaster. We have to be at the same point in life. If a woman was younger she'd have to demonstrate her maturity.

[aceleon]

funny question because it really depends, i am actually into the whole milf thing but in real life not all older woman is sexy or beautiful.

[Staximus]

Older women when I was younger, now it’s the other way around

[lilBigPotato]

I prefer older men (but no grandpas).

[Asker]

The apostrophes were necessary 😂

[Simslover92]

Around my age.

[Asker]

That's fair 😆💯

[msc545]

It's not a wide range. I say it's mostly hunger.

[LiamJHayden]

I have always dated older.

[Asker]

And I completely understand it

[Kelly6]

@ChicoFromThe305 Younger

[Asker]

Interesting, why is that? 🤔

[DryGermanGuy]

So that they don't croak in bed! 😂

[Maria1986z]

I’ve been dating younger lately.

[Asker]

Why?

[Maria1986z]

They seem to be more fun and less jaded.

[Asker]

Well that's probably true, younger minds wanna explore more and stuff

[Maria1986z]

Not under 25.

[Asker]

So the barrier between explorer and unworthy is at 25, that was close 😂

[Maria1986z]

I’m not buying anyone underage alcohol.

[Asker]

Oh that's actually a valid point, I actually didn't think of that 😂

[Maria1986z]

Especially in my 30s - 40s. Maybe in my early 20s I done it.

[Asker]

I get that, I guess we all eventually make different decisions at some point, at least with certain things

[Maria1986z]

Plus I knew them. And I was dumber then.

[Asker]

It seems with time you've gotten wise, an expected result

[ThisSiteSux]

Younger but I'm older. So by younger I mean between 27 and 39

[loveyouoak]

I'm attracted to older men.

[TheOne69000]

I'm attracted to women who's physique i describe as Womanly, tan and voluptuous

[jazzy34]

Same age or older.

[Asker]

Fair choices indeed

[AngryCarl3]

Younger. Like 30 years younger.

[tatbrat]

There’s no corelation. I’ve dated both

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Both? But around my age

[browsingthroughthe]

Mr Frodo - 👀 did you just borrow Holland's line from Spider Man?
He wants his soft tacos and his hard shell tacos 🌮

[canamlusciouslad73]

Y-O-U-N-G-E-R !!!

[queenofcardio]

Usually older. I haven't dated younger yet

[Saddlebread]

It can be both.

[CubaPirate]

At my age its got to be younger lol

[Anonymous]

Older for sure

[Asker]

I can completely understand that lol

[Opinion Owner]

A few years older makes the maturity levels even. Guys my age I can’t take seriously lol

[Asker]

That makes sense, I was the same even when I was younger, I always preferred older, don't get me wrong there's some women at the age that are mature and feminine but I'm speaking generally ha

[Anonymous]

I like younger women

[Anonymous]

Younger of course, I'm already too old.

[RachyRach]

Slightly older.

[thecolourpurple]

Older or same age

[Asker]

Understandable