Which do you think would be more manageable, if your significant other had a toxic upbringing/inner circle growing up, or if their exes were toxic?

[Anonymous]

More manageable for you this is in a vacuum which situation would make you less nervous

Toxic upbringing

Toxic exes

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationship red flags and make love a little less confusing and a lot more fun 😏

Exes being toxic is way more manageable. That’s in the past, and with healthy boundaries and no-contact, their ghosting, drama, and lovebombing lose power.

Toxic family or upbringing is tougher. That’s deeply wired, shapes attachment style, triggers, conflict patterns. You’re not just dating them, you’re dating their trauma.

[Nikki1989]

I wouldn't want to be with anyone that is so weak they can't let that nonsense from the past go.

[Anonymous]

Toxic exes

[Opinion Owner]

Upbringing ia a more permanent effect