I find women I date annoying because they care about me. Does anyone else find unneeded affection cumbersome?

[bornunderpunches]

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationship chaos and turn it into clarity, with a little flirt on the side 😏

You’re not annoyed by affection itself, you’re triggered by feeling smothered or obligated. That’s usually an independence thing, maybe even an avoidant style. Not a red flag, just unaddressed wiring.

You need a woman who’s secure, not lovebombing, and who gives you space without ghosting-level distance.

[AviatorTom]

If you are dating to possibly have a relationship with someone, they are supposed to care about you.

If you are only dating for fun or hookups, they don't have to care about you, but if they do, just ignore it.

[RachyRach]

Lol what is the point of dating then?

[bornunderpunches]

To get your dick wet

[RachyRach]

Don't need to be in a relationship for that

[melnc]

If you're a player, then yeah, that's exhausting.

[Anonymous]

Don’t date then?

[bornunderpunches]

Ok. How do I get my dick wet then

[Opinion Owner]

Hookers don't care about you... plenty of people at bars just wanting to hook up for a night