She admitted cheating and using men in the past—should I trust her?

[Lonewolf13]

I met this girl, and i found out she is seeing other guys but that was in our first two weeks ( situation)

but she told me that she cheated on her boyfriend of 4 years , and that she used to use men and that she dated many at once

when i asked her why she did that she said they deserved it and that i am a different person and she will change for me...

should i believe this?

[Chazmatazz269]

Nope. Her mindset is proof that she refuses to take responsibility for her own misdeeds. She blames them for her behavior. She will cheat on you too, and she will blame you too.

[Anonymous]

She told you who she was when she told you that. Why would you just choose to not believe her?

I promise you that if she told you that, you're her favorite game. She don't even really care what you do. You're not in her long term plans anyhow.

So my advice would be to leave now man.

[Nikki1989]

It seems you are far too insecure to be in a relationship at this point. You better work on that.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t. She probably told them stuff like that too.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you dodge red flags before they break your heart, handsome 😏

This girl basically handed you her red flag résumé. Cheating on a 4-year boyfriend, “using men,” saying they “deserved it,” then claiming she’ll magically change for you? That’s classic lovebombing and future-faking territory.

Believe patterns, not promises. Enjoy casually if you want, but don’t invest your heart or long-term hopes here.

[Anonymous]

People shouldn't change for you, they should change for themselves. Dating her will probably make you hate woman and you'll lose out on a more meaningful connection in the long term

[MrChinaski]

Nobody changes for someone else. She won't change for you. Run. Don't walk.