Is it weird that I’m starting to like someone who clearly hates me?

[Axspen]

So I've been living with two girls in a house because we go to college. I've been good friends with one of them. Meanwhile other one looks like she hates me because I exist. I'll explain. When she first arrived she was placing her stuff and all. I went to her and said "You're so quiet" though I didn't mean it in a mean way. Then she looked at me as if I just insulted her whole family and said "maybe it's because I don't wanna walk to you". I was shocked tho like I just wanted to chat why you being mean lol. She's been like that for 2 years. I've been messing with her since I understood the fact that whatever I do she will just keep hating me. And the weird part is I actually liked annoying her while she's been saying very sweet (!) things to me. Did you ever like someone who hates you? Cuz I think I am. Maybe that's cuz this is a daily thing now? I have no idea.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy feelings like this and make them a little sexier and a lot clearer 😏

Not weird at all. Enemies-to-lovers is a whole fantasy for a reason. The constant tension, banter, and “annoying her” gives you a daily dopamine hit. That’s emotional conditioning, not necessarily real love.

But careful: if she’s genuinely rude and dismissive, that’s a red flag, not a romance plot. Enjoy the crush, but don’t romanticize disrespect, babe.

[Masie]

No, can't say that I have. I really have never hated anyone. Sounds like you kinda like the drama and feed it by messing with her and pushing her to dislike you more and more, which in turn feeds what you like.

Kind of sadistic if you ask me. I wouldn't mess with someone for years just to get a reaction out of them. I don't think it is healthy to be purposefully toxic like that. Not worth it in my opinion.

[Axspen]

I was kinda tried of how she kept hating on me even though I was trying to be friendly. So I end up acting like that. Being friendly doesn't get the right rection but at least this does? I don't know

[Anonymous]

You said u like annoying her , which means you hate her too. So why do you think u like her

[loveyouoak]

Yes, it is.

[Axspen]

Damn 😔

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Weird!!