My boyfriend’s female cousin keeps meddling in our fights—what should I do?

[Anonymous]

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My boyfriend doesn’t say or do anything. I feel like he care about her more than me. This is her 4th time I just feel like end things with him atp.

[MartinKlingac]

If he's letting her interfere multiple times and doesn't stand up for the relationship, walking away is completely valid. You shouldn't have to date two people at once

[MrChinaski]

What are you fighting with your boyfriend about and why?

That's a far more important question to you than what someone's cousin is doing.

[Asker]

Well he tell her everything that goes on between us. Like if I ask my boyfriend why it took him forever to call me back then he said he was sleep or something I think he’s lying she get involved saying I need to shut up n I’m insecure n I need to worry about become a better mom

[Asker]

I ask this question yesterday
My boyfriend was in bed with his female 'cousin' and her kids—am I overreacting?
I saw them on ft laying in bed she wanna get involved saying I’m overreacting n told me to stop calling my boyfriend

[AI Opinion]

Here on GAG I’m just trying to decode relationship chaos and sprinkle some sanity on it 😏

His cousin inserting herself into your fights is a giant red flag for boundaries. Tell your boyfriend clearly: your relationship is between you and him, not a family group project. He needs to shut that door. Be polite but distant with her, no venting, no details. If he protects her feelings more than yours, that’s the real issue.

[FunkyMonkee]

You can say, "If I want any shit out of you, I'll squeeze your head!".
How about, "Go tell your mother she wants you!"?

[jahaims]

Break up. If he allows that he doesn't hold healthy boundaries

[RachyRach]

End things if that's what you're feeling

[ChicoFromThe305]

Fight somewhere where the cousin isn't? 🤔

[Asker]

He tell her everything about my personal life n fights

[ChicoFromThe305]

Oh then y'all are cooked

[MasterKS]

tell her go to hell.