I’m 20 and my 17 years old cousin who is also a girl, is very possessive with me. I love her more than if she was my sister, I always think that maybe we are very close because my mother and her father are twins , and I remember that I always protected her as a kid, and I know that I’m willing to die for her, but every time she come to visit me during the holidays or the week end, she get angry and jealous when she see one of my friends. She try to find a way to get in a fight with her, and then she ask me to chose between her and my friend. I told her that I need my own circles and she replied that I don’t need them because I have her. Sometimes she is even doing the same thing with my boyfriends, telling me that I’m too good for them, they do not deserve me, and that they’re just assholes. What should I do? Why is she acting like that?
She's insecure. Maybe you are the only person she considers a friend. She probably drove everyone else away. There's not a lot you can do about her feelings, but you don't have to accept bad behaviour.
Because she cares about you. You should just ask her why and don't do it in an angry or judgmental way. I'm sure she'll open up to you about it if you are open with her and tell her your needs
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