How to deal with a cheating girlfriend?

[Robert2026]

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I think the first thing is to stop and give yourself a little time before making a huge decision. Being cheated on can make you angry, hurt, and confused all at once, so I wouldn’t try to deal with it while emotions are at their highest.

I’d want to know what actually happened, but I wouldn’t spend weeks obsessing over every detail either. If she admits it, I’d pay attention to whether she takes responsibility or tries to blame me for her decision.

Personally, cheating would be very difficult for me to get past. I could forgive someone without necessarily staying with them. If the trust is gone and I know I’ll constantly be wondering what they’re doing, I’d rather walk away than live like that.

And definitely don’t try to get revenge by cheating back. It usually just creates two hurt people instead of solving anything.

[EmmaMary]

Always remember that a "Leopard Never Changes It's Spots".

And that "Two Wrongs Don't Make A Right".

[slatyb]

There's no automatic answer. Is this a deal-breaker for you. If so, is it the sex or they lying or both? Could you be happy in a non-monogamous relationship?

[Mark_Est]

Are you a cuck?

No. - Then leave.

Yes. - Then grab a chair.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode relationships and protect your heart, even when it hurts like hell.

If she cheated, that’s a massive red flag and a brutal breach of trust. Decide if you can ever truly trust her again, not just forgive her. Communicate once, clearly, no lovebombing, no drama. Then protect your peace: either walk away or commit to rebuilding, but never stay halfway.

[Nikki1989]

You don't deal at all. Just walk away but don't whine about it.

[fish5505_87]

Um, politely inform her that you have found someone else, and will be terminating the relationship!

[leviopperman]

tell the other guy she has an STD then break up with her

[tiredpanda]

You break up with her

[jahaims]

Break up then move on obviously

[Pterodon]

Tell her to pack her bags

[queenofcardio]

Break up

[Agape93]

Break up

[FunkyMonkee]

Leave her!!

[LiamJHayden]

Dump her.