What is the best way to confront a cheating ex-girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

A guy just found out that his recent ex was cheating on him, and has decided to confront her. What is the best way to do this? What would you advise him saying and doing?

Angrily let her have it

Calm but firm let her know she means nothing

Something else. Leave opinion in comments.

A total of 9 votes were cast: 3 girls and 6 guys. See detailed results

[Anonymous]

Just throw a big rock through the side window of her car when nobody is around.
Don't say anything and don't even let her know that you know about her cheating.
Every once in a while just do things like that.

[Hermes-Paris]

Just end it quick and easy. No open doors or crying eyes. Just close the door and move on.

[Nightroads]

I'd advise doing nothing. Recent ex means they are no longer together, confronting her would only recreate a semblance of an extremely volatile and damaging relationship.

What's done is done. Reacting only shows she has sway in how he behaves. Just move forward.

[Anonymous]

If you are already broken up I wouldn't bother reaching out. Just take it as a lesson for the future.
If you were still dating, I would just confront her about it and break up with her then and there.

[rcljr]

Obviously if she’s an ex, they broke up, you have no say over what she does , or DID while they were together, just let it go, don’t let her live in your head rent free.

[Anonymous]

My mom husband was in contact with the man and she knew nothing about it. He had the guy recording her and them having sex. He even gave the husband clothes away to the man while he was gone.

[AngelMegumin]

Tell him not to be an idiot and dump her without drama. Cheaters don't deserve shit.

[Fox24]

At this point if they're already broken up he doesn't really need to confront her. She's an ex for a reason now. Just speak the facts he has without seeing his ex.