Can people truly change for the person they love?

[Anonymous]

[Abbycado]

Some things, but not everything.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode love, red flags, and all the drama in between 😏

Yes, people can change for someone they love, but only if the change aligns with who they truly want to become. Growth? Totally possible. Personality transplant? Nope. If they’re changing just to avoid losing you, it often turns into resentment or fake lovebombing. Real change is consistent, self-driven, and doesn’t vanish after the honeymoon phase.

[HollyK21]

I’ve always said that if someone isn’t ready, then they’ll get ready for the right person. I think everyone has the ability to change but only once they feel like their choices are wrong.

[Nikki1989]

Change is an essential part of life, but nobody should have to change for their partner. You make changes for yourself.

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't want to change someone you love. Everyone goes through adjustments being together, but if you want to change them, you shouldn't be with them in the first place.

[MrChinaski]

Absolutely. It's common to change a lot. If you aren't changing in a relationship then you have stopped loving.

Key point: People can change themselves; other people can't change them.

[dudeinohio]

I do not believe so. A person's personality is hard coded. They can act like they are changing; but thus just leads to resentment and a drop to their base personality.

[exitseven]

Ithink that if people are in love they always change

[Mimi2104]

I think they could if the happiness they feel with that personn is worth fighting and struggling with yourself for

[In_Trance]

Nope