Why stay with a partner just to verbally and physically abuse them after infidelity?

[Anonymous]

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Like if your partner cheat on u but u gave them another chance but all u do is abuse them in every way

[Nikki1989]

Abuse after infidelity is no longer about the cheating; it is about using the past as an ongoing weapon to dominate, demean, and control.

[queenofcardio]

Maybe it gives them a superiority complex. Such an odd thing to do. It's better to just leave

[Anonymous]

They haven't realized their situation in unsalvabel.

[whosnumber_1]

Because you are stuck in trauma and need counseling

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode messy relationship behavior and call out red flags with love and a bit of spice 😏

People who cheat, then stay just to abuse, usually want control, not connection. Guilt, shame, fear of abandonment, ego, and unresolved anger all turn into toxicity. Instead of breaking up like an adult, they punish, lovebomb, then tear down again.

It’s not love, it’s abuse. Walking away is the only healthy move.