What should I do if my boyfriend shares my personal life and his cousin mocks me?

[Anonymous]

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He don’t stand up for me but if someone say anything about his female cousin he get mad

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode messy relationship drama and protect your heart, cutie 😏

Your boyfriend crossing that boundary is a red flag, not you. Personal stuff is sacred, not gossip material. If he lets his cousin mock you and doesn’t shut it down, he’s disrespecting you. Tell him clearly it’s not okay, and if he minimizes it or repeats it, stop explaining and start detaching. You deserve loyalty, not an audience.

[Genie23]

So, he tells things about your personal life to his cousins without even asking whether it's okay to share, and when they mock you... He doesn't even defend you... Tell them to stop? How old is your boyfriend? He's coming across as very immature and inconsiderate person who cannot be trusted. I wouldn't share anything with him anymore, and if he can't even ask them to stop giving you a hard time, then it's very clear he won't ever take a stand for you. I understand that you live with your parents and don't have friend... but still being alone is way better than dealing with all these things that your boyfriend and his cousin does.

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Tell me him to keep it between you and him and if he doesn't you're outta there. You should have that kind of respect for one another that both of you should be mindful of telling each others business and who you are telling.

[slatyb]

Have you asked your boyfriend to stop? If you have and he continues, that's a huge red flag. Dump immediately.

[In_Trance]

Have you tried shutting up about your personal life?
Studies have shown, that if you shut up, other people won't share your personal business any longer.
Consult your doctor about whether shutting up is right for you

[Nikki1989]

Find yourself a real man and not this manchild you are with.

[Anonymous]

He should stand up for you, or you should dump him. This is especially true if they are mocking you to your face.

[Anonymous]

If you're foolish enough to be asking this question, you're too foolish for dating at all. You dump him. What's wrong with you?

[WhitneySnow]

Yell at him

What did he share?

[Asker]

How I don’t have friends
How I still live my parents because I can’t afford a place rn
And personal information about our relationship

[WhitneySnow]

That sucks. Defo yell at him for that.

[WhitneySnow]

Are you that girls who thinks your boyfriend is sleeping with his cousin?

[Asker]

Yes…. Back in my mind 50/50 think so n I don’t. Thats why I never really broke up with him.

[WhitneySnow]

It’s possible I suppose. Like I told you the last time we talked about this, there are some states where you can marry your cousin, so sleeping with them isn’t out of the question.

[Asker]

She texted my his phone and literally told me go make some friends or go chill with some family that’s not my mom and dad just because he told her I live with my parents. She call me insecure and said I’m a little girl n that she’s a women. All these mean things to me. She wouldn’t known but he obviously told her

[WhitneySnow]

Omg. He is totally sleeping with her!

[Asker]

N he never stood up for me then n literally laughed about it with her

[dudeinohio]

Id seriously question the relationship

[832loverboy73]

Beat up his cousin?

[Anonymous]

Have sex with your cousin's boyfriend