Boyfriend isn't giving me enough attention, should I dump him?

[Anonymous]

When I first started seeing my boyfriend he was romantic: always called me, texted me sweet messages, always wanted to hang out with me. For the last two weeks or so, he hasn't made too much of an effort to talk to me. I feel like I always initiate the conversations with him or ask him to hang out. He always agrees to hang out with me so that's a good thing. every time he tells me he'll call me back he never does and he excuse is because he "forgot". I understand that he has friends and so do I. I like to hang out with my friends, but I always make time for him. I am now getting the feeling that he's not that into me and I plan on breaking up with him. Should I give him a warning or just break up with him?

[SchickChick1223]

Let him know how you feel. As hard for us girls to think, guys cannot read our minds. Therefore, you should talk to him about it so he can't say he didn't know if he decide to continue this behavior.

Trust me, a lot of girls go through this. It aggravates the hell out of me lol. But truth is, feelings are always stronger when you first start dating someone. You guys are getting to know each other and hanging out a lot. But, eventually, this will die down, especially if you guys have been hanging out a lot. You get use to each other. The communication shouldn't stop but this is where you have to communicate with your man about why you feel the way you feel.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

You know what happens if someone is doing their job right? First they get counseled, then they get reprimanded, then they get fired. If you have told your boyfriend how you felt before and he still isn't giving you what you want then dump him. no sense in staying in a relationship if your needs aren't being met

[Asker]

Love how you put it lol

[zombiefood]

Don't give him a warning, that's stupid and immature. Go and talk with him. Explain to him what you miss and why. Realize that's he may not notice he stopped doing it so don't be angry or accusatory. Just have a grown up conversation about how you feel and what's going on.

[Kennywilson]

He would definitely deserve a warning, it could be that he feels you are getting fed up of him or he feels that you need more space or anything, Sit him down and have a chat am sure you will both be able to sort things out and enjoy the future together

[Jonny_]

I'd give a warning... Personally because I've been the guy that has unknowingly given less attention than a girl deserves and she only told me when she broke up with me. I didn't see how I was to know that it was such an issue when I was never told...

[Asker]

How do you think I should go about giving him a warning without sounding needy?

[Jonny_]

It's hard to really I suppose... I'd just say 'You've seemed a bit distant for the last ... is there something wrong?' That way it seems a bit more like curiousity, rather that 'SPEND TIME WITH ME'.

[Musical546]

i would give him a warning. its natural for relationships to fade after awhile- see if you can get back what you want- if you can't- then just break up with him.

[Anonymous]

i'd not contact him till he next contacts you...play it cool and see how it goes. he might think after a couple of days of not talking to you 'maybe she's found someone else or doesn't want me anymore' see how it goes :)

[prettymuscle]

Well you should talk to him first, my ex broke up with me from the same way your explaining,