Are you f***ing crazy? What? You find a man that is absolutely every woman's dream man and you want to give him up because you don't think you deserve him?! Are you dillusional? Look, maybe it's because you don't feel you fit in with his friends or you guys are polar opposites and really don't have any common interests.
Don't ever say you don't deserve him. You are downgrading yourself and uplifting other girls and if that was the true case, he wouldn't waist his time with you. He would be with another girl. You totally deserve him. Stop sabotaging your relationship with him and keep it real with yourself. If you don't feel right with him, then dump him. But don't dump him because you don't "measure" up.
Remember...you're what he wants. Guys don't waist time with girls they don't want. It's counterproductive.
The lady answerers are right: he loves you as you are. Accept that. Now, it's really important to keep communications going and for either of you to ask the other when they need something. If there's a particular occasion where he needs you to get all dressed up and be his hostess, it's our job to give it your absolutely best shot but I suspect that he loves the differences so enjoy and don't be self conscious about having to work for what you want.
No. No. And no again.
If he thought he deserved better, he wouldn't be with you.
I can only assume that he knew you before you got together (because it'd be odd if he didn't!) but he chose you anyway. He picked you, he's still with you. This means that he's most probably happy with you.
If you're that worried, ask him.
I went through the same thing with my boyfriend. I asked, one evening, why he was with me when he could do so much better. He called me an idiot but when I said I was serious he said I was all he wanted, that I should never change and tagged on "don't you dare break up with me because you think I deserve better - I decide what I want, and I want you."
You'll probably find that it's the same case with your boyfriend - and you'll feel much better after that conversation.
I HATE when people do this girl or boy. "Oh he/she deserves better I should leave." Who are you to decide what anyone else deserves? If he wants to be with you and you want to be with him then, what are you so worried about?
If he really likes you and you believe you should leave him, does he then deserve to be miserable because you left him? It may not seem that way but, what you are asking is selfish! Let him decide for himself.
Then only place you should be leaving to is a self esteem group therapy. Fix you're poor mentality. "a better girl than me" << Clearly you think less of yourself than you should. Or perhaps you just need to do some growing up. Only you know for sure. Good luck.
Honey, you don't need to be exactly like him to be the "perfect" girlfriend. He chose to be with you which means he is happy like that. Being shy isn't a shame. I would much rather read a book than party outside. I think I am an interesting person. I am unique in my own way so are you! You should work on your self esteem. Don't ever say you don't deserve him. I am sure he is a lucky guy. :)
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oh Hun you are looking at this all wrong the only thing wrong I see is that fact the he loves /likes you now why can't you. you do not have to be like him for him to want you he likes you for you all you need to do is love your self. so no there is no need to leave him heard working people like you deserve good things in there life the most of all because they apprentice it more when they have something good. best of luck to you hun.
No, you shouldn't. He probably doesn't care about any of those things, and finds qualities in you that he loves. What should you do? Get some counseling to improve your self-image.
Why don't you let him decide if he wants to be with you. You decide if you want to be with him. you shouldn't be making that decision for each other imo, its disrespectful.
Is he happy with you though. You might think that he deserves someone better, but it he still wants to be with you then leaving him won't accomplish anything.
Why would you think that? He is with you for a reason and it’s not the things you said that you think, if he didn’t wanna be with you, he would’ve told you already
Nature would actually dictate that you share him. But why not hold onto him for as long as you can?
"No"
I am Speechless..
Women are not satisfied with anything...
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