My husband call me a stupid cow?

[Anonymous]

My husband and me had this horrible fight about our money issues (which is the only thing we ever fight about). It got so bad he call me a stupid cow, He got me all upset and slept at a friend's house. He's calling me nonstop (and its getting annoying) or texting me. I'm really mad at him and I rather not talk to him. What do I do

[Techan]

Well he's probably trying to call to apologize. People say stupid things in anger sometimes. But I mean if it's your husband... don't let a stupid little argument have so much power. Be the bigger person and talk to him. Tell him how that made you feel, and at least give him the opportunity to apologize and explain himself. If either of you are still mad, then maybe you should wait a while, sleep on it as they say and come back to this once you've cooled off. But one way or another you need to try and talk to him about it at some point. Sure calling someone a stupid cow is pretty harsh... but it doesn't sound like this is something that happens often, a momentary burst of anger isn't worth all this.

[sweetaspie]

Well, I have been called MUCH worse, lol. Anyways, if he hurt your feelings don't let him get away with it. Usually when you open the door and give men the oppurtunity to speak to you like that they feel like they can do it all the time. I would talk to him about it though and let him know that he hurt your feelings. Or if you don't want to talk, don't. You are the one hurt, so you decide when you are ready to talk to him

[1FastFC]

When I really regret something I said or did is when I call my girlfriend non stop. he probably feels bad but stupid cow is a really messed up thing to call someone lol . id say do something to teach him a lesson never to call you that EVER again. make him get on his knees and apologize and beg you back!