Why have we stopped talking to each other?

[Anonymous]

I used to have this flirty relationship with a girl for a while, a year or so, but then it kind of stopped. It's been months since we've talked, and we don't even greet each other anymore. Recently, the last time I saw her, we just looked at each other, then looked away.

We got each others' jokes and we used to be so happy seeing each other. Now it's like we dread it.

[neverhaveiever]

Maybe you both are having a misunderstanding. You both probably liked each other..now she feels you aren't interested. So she gets cold.. or it could be the other way around. Next time you see her, stop her and say hi what's up..with a smile. That will show that you are welcoming and inviting.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like one of you wanted more from the other, then it became awkward, am I correct? Just say hello to her, brake the ice, if you are acting weird then she's going to act weird. People usually can sense when someone "dreads" seeing or talking to them, so they act the same.

[Asker]

well, if it's awkward, is there a point in trying to talk then?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, because talking and joking with her will make her feel at ease and break the awkwardness. A friendly smile and good laugh seems to always do the trick.

[Anonymous]

Girls get annoyed if they like a guy, and he never actually makes a move on them.

[Asker]

oh I made a move, but things were complicated. But even after that, things seemed okay.