Nude Beach and Jealousy?

[Anonymous]

so I was wondering if I wanted to go to a nude beach weather it be with my boyfriend husband whatever should I feel jealous if he looks at other nude women ? Like also what if he gets a 'hard on' How should thsi all me interpreted . ? Is it proper etiquette .

[wpmason]

Unless its like a swingers resort, the vibe is not overtly sexual. Nudity does not equal sex. At any rate, do you feel jealous if looks at other women at a normal beach/pool? Honestly, a lot of typical beaches have a sexier vibe than nude beaches. If its just that he'll get to see nipples, pubes, and lips, then that's probably you need to come to grips with first. Don't think that it's going to be a bunch of models hanging out naked though, it's not. There will be people of all shapes and sizes and ages.

At any rate, it's impossible not to see the other people, but staring and ogling is definitely inappropriate behavior. Proper etiquette also calls for erections to be concealed if they happen. It's not a huge deal, no one will freak out, but a man should either go into the water, roll over, or wrap a towel around himself if he gets hard. There are guys that will strut around showing it off, but those are the bad eggs.

I think it's a great experience, but it's probably not for everyone. The only way you'll ever know for sure how you'd feel about it is to give it a shot. If it doesn't work out, just don't go back. (it's not like he's never seen another naked woman before.) also, based on your question, it all seems kinda hypothetical, so if you're single find a guy friend that could go with you. You'll have a great story, you'll probably feel closer as friends, and jealousy won't be an issue.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

The thing about nude beaches, resorts and colonies, is they realize that an erection might happen. If you're going to these places, you just have to accept that it will happen. If you're going to be nude, people might look. People might have a reaction. It happens. Generally though, people are pretty good about this kinda stuff. They're usually busy doing their own thing, and most people won't gawk and stare. It's bad form.

Anyway, don't worry about it. There's no reason to be jealous. It's not like he's going JUST to check other people out. It's not like he's going there to pick people up. It's not like he's cheating. And finally, I'm pretty sure you can't say with 100% honesty that you won't somehow glance over to some nice looking guy. I'm sure you can't say with 100% honesty that you guarantee you can't get aroused yourself.

It can happen. No big deal. Don't worry about it.

[Asker]

Thank you :)

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

You're welcome. I knew a family who apparently went out to a nudist resort regularly. I didn't get it but whatever. Still I too am ridiculously comfortable without clothes, so on occasion I have considered going to some kind of resort sometime just to see what it's all about. Checking out sites and brochures. The stuff I said there was based on things I've been told or read about in site's F.A.Qs.

But yeah, you shouldn't have anything to worry about.

[sexykim17]

my parents have been to a bunch of them, so I asked my mom this once. she said she doesn't get jealous, its natural for him to look. we're always nude at home, and my dad and bro get hard sometimes. I think its just natural, not like he really wants them or anything.

[Anonymous]

So long as the gals keep their hands to themselves, we were thinking
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[beastman88]

shouldnt really go if you have so many worries about what's going to happen and whatever. better off not doing it then something happens and you resent each other for it. iam sure if you really love each other the naked people everywhere shouldn't be a distraction.

[beastman88]

also don't think I would get an erection, id be too scared of the consequences lol. fear keeps the lion tamed if you get my drift

[Anonymous]

I go to the nude beach in Miami. It's natural for a guy to get an erection. It's not always sexual, it could be just from the sun and the breeze, so no, don't get jealous if he gets one. And if he does, it's probably because you are there nude beside him. My girlfriend actually gets turned-on by other women checking me out. It makes her feel good that she's the one leaving the beach with me. She'll even purposely get me excited so that other women can check me out. It's quite a thrill for me, and would be for your man too. Just don't fondle him where others could see you. That would be illegal. However, when you are in the water, kiss him and push your body up against his so that he puts on a nice display for the other women when you come out of the water. Also, when picking a spot, stay away from families and large groups. Try to find a few women off to themselves and set up near them. He'll thank you later!

[cardioman6519]

you see lots of erections there? I haven't been there, just the topless beach in Miami.

[Anonymous]

No, because it sounds like you are the one that wants to go. That's one of the risks of going. He's going to look at other girls, and other guys are going to be looking at you. If you can't take that, maybe you shouldn't go.

[beastman88]

i agree

[halilmeral]

i did not go but i want perheps it will be an exciting