Girl with boyfriend always wants to hang out with me one-on-one. How should I respond?

[Randa]

We were on a date, she dressed nicer and made her hair more formal than I've ever seen her and earlier she had texted me about how excited she was to hang out with me, so it was clearly a date. But during the date she told me she has a boyfriend, but she was acting more physically intimate than "just friends"; holding my hand and leaning against me and flirting. And she texts me about missing me and really wanting to see me again and that she hopes I miss her when she isn't around. I asked her "what about your boyfriend" and she was all "? aren't we just friends? I really like my boyfriend" but she acts too intimate and flirty for just friends. She denied that it was anything more than good friends, but she acts too physically intimate and flirty and texts me too many messages about missing me, and that she's dying to see me again, for her simply thinking of me as a completely platonic friend. How should I respond when she says she wants to see me one-on-one again? I wouldn't mind hooking up with her if she dumps her boyfriend, so I don't want to be an A Hole and calls her names. Nor do I really want to get emotionally caught up or waste energy trying to steal her away from her boyfriend or trying to make her fall for me, 'cause she'd probably do the same to me.

[bunny_luv]

i dunno. sounds to me like she's testing the waters if you know what I mean. its OK to go window shopping once in a while ;o) but sampling the goods like that when dinner is waiting at home for her? that's a little risky. I wonder what her boyfriend knows and thinks of you? take care and I think if you listen to your heart you'll know the right thing to do with this dilemma... that she's creating.

[Anonymous]

The question here is would you want a girl like this? She's obviously playing dumb saying "we're just friends" typical thing a girl does to not feel bad for doing something she shouldn't do. Next time just tell her to contact you once she's single because this is obviously not just a friends thing.

[bassman]

Tell her when she dumps the guy whom she's with...then maybe you guys can hang out. Period. In the mean time...go find other girls without bf's.