Why am I turned on by jerks?

[Anonymous]

The jerk A hole type seems to be attractive to me somehow , they turn me on . Why ? I mean can I like and actually enjoy being treated like sh*t ?

[MystiKaL]

Sorry to put this bluntly but your just being like all those other stupid women who lack self respect and go for a "bad boy". Carry on like this and you will end up being a single mum with no man in your life and no decent guy going near you.

OR...you can change your life and start to go for good guys, men who don't disrespect their women, men who will treat you like a princess and will be there for you.

Your choice.

[7gnat]

Instinctually you are strong and go after the alpha male. The alpha males at your age are jerks but won't always be. Some may not grow up or stop being so cocky and mean but many will mature but still have that edge to them which will always be a turn on for you.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

This

[Asker]

Thank you , that actually clears it up

[7gnat]

Good I am glad it does :)

[Stacyzee]

Because you have low self esteem. Realize that you are worth more than you put out.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

your solution.

[Anonymous]

Welcome to the world of Women.

Youll just be like every other woman on the planet.

Youll date a ton of jerks until your in your mid 30s and then tell everyone you're "tired" of dating jerks.

But because you're old all the jerks no longer like you so you have to settle for nice guys.

But you'll just keep telling everyone that you're evolved and how you love nice guys.

Then dream about bad boy a**holes in your sleep.

[EngineeringStudent]

It's not that you're attracted to jerks, it's that, like 7gnat said, you like alpha males, who at that age tend to be perceived as jerks. I don't think you actually enjoy being treated like sh*t. No one should, lol.