We both try and make each other jealous through other people?

[Anonymous]

I know it's childish...but this guy I like was flirting with this dirty girl I don't like. Right next to me he was looking at her, glanced st me then back to her. H told her ge wanted a closer look at her necklace (which she's worn a billion times) do of course she eagerly comes over and leans forward exposing her cleavage while he stared. I was hurt and angry. So tonight, I flirted w two other guys at the end of the room. Well, he kept staring. He couldn't stop. He even avoided walking past me to the door (the same one and only one he goes to because he parks by it and did so this time too) walked clear to the other side of the room and used that exit having to walk around the building to go to his car! I'm usually really insecure, shy, and get walked all over but tonight - I don't think so! So my question is...now that we've gotten each other jealous, what do I do? How do I stop the madness between us and move forward? Did that mean he was jealous?

[Anonymous]

I wonder if the people you flirted with, use this site and are asking "why did she use me", "why did he use me".

You two really need to grow up and think about other peoples feelings, seriously!

[Jaybabe77]

Approach him like a woman and tell him how you feel instead of resorting to what you both did because one or both of you are going to end up hurt, it already seems like he did.

[Asker]

He's constantly being dirty w the same girl. I was jUst going to keep to myself at the end of the room when started (again) talking about her chest really loud. I know this because he wasn't loud about any other discussions he was having. So, I was hurt and just was having a nice convo w another guy. Another guy soon joined us. We're both being hurtful :( and now it's not a god idea to talk to him.

[Jaybabe77]

Yeah I guess he thought jealousy would bring you closer, but I guess you've made your decision as to what you want to do. Good luck