If a girl engages is constant "bickering" with a guy?

[Anonymous]

I'm not complaining. I think this girl is cute and very smart. She is very intelligent but we always seem to have opposite views on many things and we argue a lot, its nothing serious, its very playful and we always smile and laugh when we do it. Its just very constant, like 90 percent of the time, people who know us laugh and tells us we fight like little kids. Its not really fighting over a stupid thing, we actually have these well thought out arguments and neither of us want to give up and we keep going and going.

I do it because it makes me feel good. I like her and the fact that she can keep up with me makes her more attractive. She doesn't really argue or even tease/taunt other people the way she does me, I know that's how our dynamic is but the question is, why is it so different than the way we act with everybody else?

[gingmart]

You 2 definitely like each other. I'm in the same situation.theres a young women I know and we are constantly at each other as you describe. She's younger than me (shes 17 and I'm 27) I realized we like each other ages ago because I did the same things when I liked someone when I was back in school but were shy about them finding out. You 2 could be good together but you may have already fallen into the friends catagory

[Prof_Don]

This girl definitely likes you...the two of you are probably so similar in some personality aspects that this "clash" creates sexual tension. :)

[Anonymous]

you guys like each other. alot. this is how you express your feelings towards one another. It could be frustration from the feelings or sexual frustration. I've been doing it with a coworker for the last 2 years.

[Asker]

Thats a long time. I just met her a few weeks ago but it seriously feels a lot longer. I do like her, I mean, I'm a sarcastic smartass to her but not because I can't stand her, like you said, that's how I express myself. I see her sometimes being extra nice to everybody but if we are together, and even if it sounds cliched, sparks fly lol.

[Opinion Owner]

same thing here. were both sarcastic to each other, he tries to make me mad but I push it right back at him . yes it if fun and sort of a turn on for me and probably him, but eventually I sort of got tired of the bickering and we are now actually getting along, but he still knows which buttons to push to get me going. I think eventually you guys will have to end up like us and try and be nice to each other if you want to date her eventually. gl!

[darlanoy0510]

You guy have chemistry together and if she is playfully fighting with you mean she likes you. But be careful she could argue with you because of her belief too. sound to me she likes you.

[acat321]

she likes you!