I understand it may be to soon. I'm really having a hard time dealing with this because I want to spend time with her and she's backing up. Her calls never came for a day or so. I did the most hardest thing I could do and not react. She called and said her phone was out of order.
My dilemma is I work with her. She is a part time receptionist where we work. I am trying to give her space but I'm thinking like she's going to meet someone else. We used to hang out allot but now its not as often.
When she does call, she acts as if everything's OK. It's been hell going through this. Not sure what I should do. I'm confused.
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Id have to say you are in an unfortunate predicament... If she is your FWB then she is not your girlfriend (from your question title...) For whatever reason, an FWB relationship is what she feels comfortable with at the moment, and from her reaction, she is still not interested in a romantic relationship.
To put it cooly for a moment...an FWB relationship is something of an arrangement...theres a boundary there. Youve developed feelings...which crosses the boundary of a FWB relationship and the arrangement is now broken. She knows she cannot have sex with you or go out with you without it feeding your feelings...which would be leading you on. This is why she wants and needs to back away from this...thats the most respectful thing she can do for you.
On that same note..the most respectful thing you can do for her is to understand she is not your girlfriend, and she isn't under any obligation to take things further, so it would be unfair to hold it against her. For your own sake...I wouldn't count on it or try and make her change her mind ...its best to give her space, keep your distance because waiting and hoping on something she did not want to begin with is not a fair thing to do to yourself.
Just like how you didn't count on falling in love, you can't count on, or expect her to do the same.