When a girl is on the fence / cool

[Anonymous]

So I am going to be catching up with a girl friend for lunch. Chances are this girl that seems to like me (on the fence) I am interested in is going to see this. so what would she think if this girl on the fence saw me eating with one of my girl friends for lunch? Would she start showing me a little more interest. Curious if this would get her to think a little or would it do nothing? Again I am just curious.

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+1 y

and yes she has a lot of guy friends... its only fair right? Plus I am not tied down to her or anything :S

[Anonymous]

if that was me, I would think you were seeing her also. so I'd still keep talking to you, but take things slowly and wouldn't hook up with you because I think you're playing the field. I would still keep evaluating it wouldn't make me just jump right up and grab you out of desperation

[Asker]

Yeah and that is just the thing, we are friends -- nothing more... would she ask about it?

[risingphoenix201011]

She may ask you about her, may get a little jealous, or may not give a crap lol. Guess you'll find out

[cazza3]

Or maybe presume you're seeing her and completely back off

[Asker]

I hope she doesn't assume, guys can have girls as friends too :S

[cazza3]

Yes they can my fiance has loads and most of my friends are guys but would I use one of them to make him or any other guy jealous-hell no. I don't play games and don'thave any respect for people who do and so lose all interest if I even get a sniff of bullsh*t

[Asker]

Ok, I am not "playing games". I was merely asking the question what do you think would happen, can you see I don't want to loose her? At the same time I want to catch up with my friend which happens to be a girl... grrr, sorry that that wasn't clear.

[Asker]

Guess I can't eat in the same building because she may take me wrong *sigh.

[cazza3]

Yeah the wasn't exactly clear:-) But how about you introducing them, its shows you've nothing to hide. I know some people think its a big deal introducing somebody to your friends but its really not.

[Asker]

Sure I hope she won't take me wrong.