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Often times guys will chase after the high maintenance girls instead of chill girls. Why is that?
Definition of chill girl: low maintenance, calm, relaxed, dresses/acts casual, non bitchy. Just one of the guys type of vibe
My friends say guys don't like overly chill girls cause the chill girl is seen as having low self esteem and weaker convictions than the controlling girl. This is not always true but its how the girl is viewed if she is overly chill. I've never slept with anybody and I had guys assume I was easy just because I'm not demanding or controlling or aggressive with my friends.
I don't think so. Maybe some guys will be fooled if a girl thinks very highly of herself they think there must be a reason. Or girls who are high maintenance are that way because they have a lot of options because they're attractive in other ways but I don't think guys will chose someone high maintenance over someone relaxed if they're equal in other ways. Well at least I wouldn't. Some guys do seem to want just a woman who relies on them for everything and is just a decoration I never really got that. But I don't think they're the majority.
I think chase high maintenance girls because those girls are easier to figure out. They are often self-confident enough to tell a guy what they want. So they provide a short cut information for guys. The chill girl is harder to figure out for guys especially when she doesn´t show a sign of appreciation for him. I would say too chilled can be unattractive because as a guy I´d assume she´s not interested and move on.
Well I'm not going to become one of them high end bitches just to get a man
He'll take me as me or he can keep on walking
I don't play that shit
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Nah. Chill girls are the best.
Chill girls might seem uninterested and is harder to read. Is she just friendly? Guys love low maintenance but they also want someone that show interest. Ie make it easy for them to get something going, but not on the sex part that would make you a slut. He needs to work on that to feel secure when he finally get it.
I loved highly educated girls but the problem with highly educated girls is that they tended to not be chill in my experience: lots of them were feminists, aggressive, didn't share my marriage values, etc. You know, a whole bunch of hyper-liberals. Hopefully everyone knows what I mean. It was very rare that I found a highly-educated woman who fascinates me with conversation topics but shares my basic values. I found her though: been married going towards towards our 14th.
High maintenance girls are usually very flirty as well. This is what women even "chill" ones don't want to accept or acknowledge.
Women in general are typically very lazy outside of working on thier appearance. Most women's attitude is that they have a vagina and that's good enough.😆 well men are people to. Men like attention as well. And that's why I woman with some personality even if she's actually just a B**** in disguise (cause inexperienced men are trusting with women and easily tricked) will trump a "chill" girl everytime. And besides, that "chill" girl could be a b**** as well to. She's just not trying to hide it.😆
But not too much one of the guys, otherwise I'd be turned off by that kind of woman. I need a mixture of girly-girl plus tomboy equals 'calm woman'. I don't want chill woman or boss woman or gold-digger woman.
I'd just want, calm woman. Deliberate know letter a for 'a calm woman.'
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Chill girls are like a magnet. Boys love being around such girls, I can tell you. Though other girls may or may not have problems with such girls. But boys will definitely help such girls more than other girls for sure.
As for relationship, for me, no one would be better than a chill girl as I am a bit reserved.
With Hi Maint I feel I am contributing to her. But Hi Maint can be too hard work.
Chill is good but maybe you don't feel you contribute much.
I would go for a Goldilocks Maint girl. Does need maint. Is challenging at times but consolable.
nope thats my favorite type of girl, i see myself marrying one of these chill girls a girl you can have a romantic bond and be best friends with is the type of girl every guy needs tbh
Depends on the guy's persona, honestly. Opposites attract usually. I don't do all that rah rah, look at me garbage... in an s/o or make friends. I don't talk much, but when I do, it's intense and non negotiable... so rah rah people just annoy me and waste time. I know several guys... decent ones... who appreciate time around females who aren't trying to be social media look at me models.
If that's the definition of "too chill" you spelled "wifey material" wrong.
No, chill is great. Ultimately men want a low drama woman who can help assist them in their mission in life. Highly disagreeable women are a pain in the ass and serve to be a distraction to men who want to conquer and succeed.
No, it is not unattractive. What is unattractive is a high maintenance, controlling, person who perpetually causes drama and stress. I'll take the girl who is independent, laid back and emotionally stable.
I mostly dated the laid back type. My ex girlfriend was sort of a tomboy. The first date I had with my wife was when I took her fishing in my boat. I asked her if she wanted me to bit her hook and she said she could bait her own hook.
Nah that's a good thing mostly. Though some girls are like that because they hate women, and that can cause problems if you have female friends. Because you've just met the type who's going to make arguments out of nowhere and be jealous every time you even just work with a girl.
When a girl say's "I am just like one of the guys, I never got on with woman." it can be fine but it can also be a major red flag.
How do you think that? I think that the girl you described is perfect to hang out! I think you are doing a drama here lol. Obviously a energetic person is atractive but a chill girl sounds kinda a safe space and a person very desirable!
Nah, it's fine. As long as she can dress up when appropriate.
As long as she's sufficiently demanding and likes to tease me relentlessly without letting me have any penetrative sex with her, everything else is negotiable.
Based on your definition, I like chill girls, as long as they look feminine, like being female, are heterosexual, enjoy sex, and have feminine mannerisms.
Not at all- I've always been way more attracted to chill girls, I married one, and I'm friends with a bunch. High maintenance just doesn't look good to me... I don't see the alure of it all.
Yeah. It means she has no passion. men want to see that she's passionate about something. Chill people tend to be boring
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