My boyfriend's brother is jealous of me?

[iliankadonk]

I recently began a relationship with this guy and we've been dating for about 3 months now. We met just before the beginning of summer. We began dating, but after he graduated he had to move an hour away with his family. We decided to keep our relationship going, even with the distance. We hangout almost every weekend. Our relationship is good and strong :)

I met his family and they really like me, even his brother like(d) me. You see, my boyfriend started working and he works really weird hours. We has the night shift, so after work, he goes home and sleeps until work. He at least has the weekend off which is great for me! The thing is, even though him and his brother live together, they don't really hangout much because my boyfriend is either working or hanging out with me. My boyfriend's brother is upset that he hangs out with me so much and since his brother is upset with him, it kind of makes him upset. Of course, he wants to hangout with his brother and all...

I really don't know what to do, I mean, my boyfriend could hangout with him over the weekend, but that would mean he wouldn't hangout with me. I want him and his brother to hangout.. but I'd hate to give up a weekend :( I mean, if he really wanted to hangout with his bro, he would right? I mean, it's really not fair that I have him every weekend, but it's what keeps our relationship striving.

Maybe I am being a bit mean and keeping him to myself, I admit that. What do you think I should do? Maybe we could plan a day where we all hangout? Or should I just give him a weekend with his brother?

Thanks for any advice! :)

[Nicci]

It's probably a bit of jealous, I've felt this before I must admit.

Me and my twin sister are extremely close but when she has a new boyfriend then we obviously see each other less, it works the same in reverse too.

It's a little better for us because she works normal hours and so I can see her at the end of the day but if those brothers almost never see each other than that can be a problem.

I'd recommend having maybe a weekend where you don't see him and just tell him to hang with his brother/friends.

I believe that it's not healthy to spend too much time together anyway, so perhaps maybe you should just be willing to have some time without him every now and then.

If you're meant to be together, you'll have a lot of time together anyway and it's important to get along with your boyfriends family.

[Anonymous]

Maybe just so that the bother won't be jealous why don't you hook him up with a girlfriend of your and double date, that way the four of you hang out together,

[Blobb]

Sounds legit, split him 50/50?

Or hang out with him & his bro ^^