I never had a boyfriend until now that I am 25. A couple of months ago I met a wonderful guy and we fell in love. He was my first date, my first kiss, my first everything. He knows this and is OK with this.
The problem is that I am so used to doing things on my own, I always go places alone, I travel alone, I go for walks alone, I do everything alone. And I´m so not used to being kissed and receiving hugs and cuddles and having someone who misses me and wants to be with me.
He wants to massage my feet, my back, he wants to go shopping with me, he tells me I´m sexy and I just feel so lost.
I love him and I try to do thngs for him all the time and I actually love that and prefer that because I always felt the need to love someone. I just never thought about someone loving me back and being so sweet and attentive as he is.
Whenever he tries to do something for me I get extremely uncomfortable because in my mind I´m not used to it and I feel like I don´t deserve it.
How can I tell him this? Would he understand? How can I become more comfortable being taken care of?
The problem is that I am so used to doing things on my own, I always go places alone, I travel alone, I go for walks alone, I do everything alone. And I´m so not used to being kissed and receiving hugs and cuddles and having someone who misses me and wants to be with me.
He wants to massage my feet, my back, he wants to go shopping with me, he tells me I´m sexy and I just feel so lost.
I love him and I try to do thngs for him all the time and I actually love that and prefer that because I always felt the need to love someone. I just never thought about someone loving me back and being so sweet and attentive as he is.
Whenever he tries to do something for me I get extremely uncomfortable because in my mind I´m not used to it and I feel like I don´t deserve it.
How can I tell him this? Would he understand? How can I become more comfortable being taken care of?
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