A little background...she was raped ten weeks before we met. Her dad had a stroke about 2.5 weeks before she told me she didn't miss me enough. She stopped taking the birth control so I wondered if that whacked out her hormones. Then the stress from staying with parents to help take care of dad. This is a pretty good girl that goes to church every Sunday & sings in the choir.
I guess I have a few questions. What do you guys think caused the sudden change? I asked if she met another guy & she swears not. I'd like to think she wouldn't lie but who knows. Second, I have some things at her house that I told her I wanted back & she said she'd meet me one night this week to give them to me. Should I meet her to get them & try to talk about things or would that make me look needy & weak? Or should I tell her to mail them to me? Would asking her to mail them make me look more mysterious & possibly make her miss me more by not seeing me? Anything at all that may change her mind?
So confused!
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