I like my best friend's younger brother...

[Anonymous]

And I have for a while, maybe about 3 years or so. He's 2 years younger than I, which is weird for me because I've always dated guys in my grade or older. I'm a junior in high school, he's a freshman... the guys in his grade are so immature and awkward and sex-obsessed. But he's not. He's more mature than any high school guy I've ever been acquainted with. I've talked to my best friend about it before--not about me, but "Would it be weird if one of us started dating Kyle (not his name)?"--and she didn't have a problem with it.

I guess I just want to know how he would see it... dating his sister's best friend who's 2 years older than him? I've rarely seen a younger guy and an older girl together in high school.

Oh, and they both live 2 houses down from mine. I don't know if that matters too immensely, but yeah.

Thanks in advance :)

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So I came to the conclusion that I will do nothing until he graduates, and if I still have feelings for him, we'll take it from there. It's not like I won't see him a lot, considering he's my neighbor and all. So... that's about it.

[Anonymous]

Well I m having almost the same problem now... but the thing is my guy best friends brother is 4 years younger than me. I've never had a crush on my bestfriend and im his girfriends closest friend. I first met him when he was just 9 or 10 and weve always been like siblings, he was still in highschool when i went to college until i had to stop for sometime, so je sort of did catched up on me and even studied on the same school as mine, so we kinda go home together when i eat dinner at his house because of my bestfriends weekend traditionor meet at school or text, and then their mom randomly asks me what if his younger son courted me, even his cousins does that. so now im having a hard time ignoring his smiles, it surprised me how i looked at him before as a kid that i need to take care of, now i see him and i just feel this fluttering tingling feeling on my chest... And i know i can't because he's way to young for me im 3yrs and 9 months older.. im now 20 and he's just turned 17, kinda mke me feel creepy bout myself. and what will his brother think? Im lost...

[Anonymous]

What end up happening?