She was everything I've ever wanted. She was the only girl I've ever really loved talking to and I don't really like very many girls so I can't really replace her that easily. It sucks but its the truth, I just don't see anyone worth it (she was though to me) and its been like this even before I met her. But yeah, hearing her tell me she likes some other guy now really hurt me but I sucked it up and told her "Despite what happened, ill still try to be their for you every once and awhile, because leaving just doesn't feel right.. So good luck and I hope it all works out for you." and she replies with a thank you. Then I say yeah.. and cut it off.. (We broke up just yesterday)
I asked her why she started liking this other guy and she said its because she knows him for real. So if you think about it, I might've had a better chance if I was there which hurts because I feel kind of trapped. I want be there but I cant, at least not yet. She told me she didn't believe it could of worked because of distance but I did and I did try to convince her a little that it really was possible but she kept telling me it wouldn't and that she didn't want it to happen anymore. Even if she said it wouldn't work she did seem okay with the distance before and even agreed to meeting me one day in past conversations. So that tells me she can still do it. It seems like this guy showed up and she started to think of our relationship as wishful and that it really wouldn't have worked because of distance. (over 13,000 miles apart)
So my question is, do you guys think she will come back? I tried my best to be the most amazing guy ever to her and be there for her even it wasn't physically and I even sacrificed my sleep just to talk to her because she made me so happy. To be honest I don't think its over just yet, deep down inside I think she still wants to be with me. And the reason she gave me just doesn't feel good enough. I know I'd probably be better off forgetting about her but I'm not a quitter and I just can't forget about her she was just so amazing (she told me she couldn't forget about me either in one of conversations), and it sucks knowing that I could of been the one but the distance was the one discouraging her. Our last conversation before the breakup even ended off really well, she opened up to me about issues she was having at school and we talked about the past and our future and she told me that I make her smile. But then after a month of hearing nothing from her I eventually got a chance to talk to her and then all this suddenly happened.
I really do still think there's a chance she will come back for the second time, because after all. She came back after the first time too. I cut off contact with her completely for two years without saying goodbye at one point because I gave up and I didn't understand myself back then (I was actually hurt too because I saw on Facebook that she was dating someone but I never confronted her about and just cut all contact, i
I asked her why she started liking this other guy and she said its because she knows him for real. So if you think about it, I might've had a better chance if I was there which hurts because I feel kind of trapped. I want be there but I cant, at least not yet. She told me she didn't believe it could of worked because of distance but I did and I did try to convince her a little that it really was possible but she kept telling me it wouldn't and that she didn't want it to happen anymore. Even if she said it wouldn't work she did seem okay with the distance before and even agreed to meeting me one day in past conversations. So that tells me she can still do it. It seems like this guy showed up and she started to think of our relationship as wishful and that it really wouldn't have worked because of distance. (over 13,000 miles apart)
So my question is, do you guys think she will come back? I tried my best to be the most amazing guy ever to her and be there for her even it wasn't physically and I even sacrificed my sleep just to talk to her because she made me so happy. To be honest I don't think its over just yet, deep down inside I think she still wants to be with me. And the reason she gave me just doesn't feel good enough. I know I'd probably be better off forgetting about her but I'm not a quitter and I just can't forget about her she was just so amazing (she told me she couldn't forget about me either in one of conversations), and it sucks knowing that I could of been the one but the distance was the one discouraging her. Our last conversation before the breakup even ended off really well, she opened up to me about issues she was having at school and we talked about the past and our future and she told me that I make her smile. But then after a month of hearing nothing from her I eventually got a chance to talk to her and then all this suddenly happened.
I really do still think there's a chance she will come back for the second time, because after all. She came back after the first time too. I cut off contact with her completely for two years without saying goodbye at one point because I gave up and I didn't understand myself back then (I was actually hurt too because I saw on Facebook that she was dating someone but I never confronted her about and just cut all contact, i
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really shouldn't have been hurt though back then because we never really were together at that time).. but then one day I surprisingly met her and we both ended up developing feelings towards each other.
You know what though, if I'm still single and haven't found anyone by the time I can possibly take her back ill take that chance because I still believe she's worth it and I believe in multiple chances.. She has no idea what she's missing. She won't ever completely know me until she meets me.
You know what though, if I'm still single and haven't found anyone by the time I can possibly take her back ill take that chance because I still believe she's worth it and I believe in multiple chances.. She has no idea what she's missing. She won't ever completely know me until she meets me.
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Also, when I confronted her about not talking to me she tried to cover it all up but then she eventually just flat out told me. I pretty much pushed her to say it now that I look at it. But yeah, it seems like she wanted physical attraction so started liking someone else behind my back but then still wanted to keep me. So it does seem she didn't wanna lose me. I mean I absolutely tried my best to treat her right. Being the best man I could ever be was a goal of mine and I hope my efforts werent
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for nothing..
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