My boyfriend doesn't talk much with me anymore. Is he bored or lost interest in me?

[Anonymous]

Guys' opinion preferred.

We have been in a relationship for almost 3 months.Everything went well.We called,text and met each other often.Now,both of us are busy so we can't really see each other.However,I definitely expect him to talk like usual.I asked him and he said I have nothing to worry about because he still feels the same way and loves me a lot.He does text me every day but It is just like "don't forget to take your lunch" or "take rest baby" that's it.I feel like he is trying to distance himself from me.Is he being comfortable with our relationship or he has lost interest but afraid to tell me?

[Anonymous]

He's a guy. You were lucky to get 3 months of texting which satisfied you.

No guy is ever going to keep up the level of communication you want in a relationship. That's just the way it is. You can rail and moan and complain about it all you like, but that's the harsh honest to goodness truth of it.

Women communicate more than men. Way more.

At the start of a relationship, when everything is new, a guy will *try* to communicate at a female level. But it can't last. It won't last. It never lasts.

When he eventually slows down the level of communication to a mans level, (as he has done here) the woman invariably gets confused and panics thinking it signifies a change in his emotional connection or a change in the relationship.

And usually it doesn't. It just means he isn't going to be texting like a girl anymore. That part of the honeymoon is over.

[Cromartie]

Actually we don't know. Both options you gave are viable. It depends on so many other signs because you weren't clear on what really changed and how that frequency altered as well as how busy you both are.

Just "We got busy and now we do less" is insufficient as that's expected.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I think you are over thinking. If he says his feelings are the same, take him at his word.