I've been talking to this guy for nearly 5 months now, and we hit it off pretty well in the beginning. Well, he would go through periods of hardly texting me or leaving me on read. He told me he wasn't ignoring me, that he just got super busy or forgot to check his phone. But he got worse about replying to my messages, and grew seemingly more distant. It seemed like excuses on his end. Even when we'd talk about trying to meet up, he'd say he's "so busy" sometimes, but in reality he's just hanging with his friends 24/7 or playing video games. He's got the ability to come see me way easier than I do him, but he says I'd have to be the one going to him. I asked him if he still wanted this "relationship" we were in. (Not technically a relationship, but we were in the talking phase, were sexual with one another, and talked about meeting up.) he said due to age difference and distance, he thought it'd be best to just stay friends. Well, we got to talking again, and we both agreed we had a hard time finding other people, so he agreed to start talking this way again, and seemed very interested in me. We also started being very honest and upfront with one another, and he told me we could as he doesn't play games. Once again, I've noticed that he has grown distant. I tested him and waited for him to text first, 6 days went by, still nothing. In the past it would take him a max of 3 days to say anything. So I shot him another message in an effort to talk about this, but he couldn't even reply to my second message. My messages haven't even been opened yet and it's been like this all day. Am I just being stupid right now? Is he hiding things to make me feel better, and has just lost interest?
This guy I'm talking to hardly talks to me anymore. Has he lost interest?
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