Girl taking pictures with other guys.

[CollinsHarp]

Hi, I would like to know an honest opinion from girls. Guys are welcome also. In a group photo, I often find the same guy standing beside my girl. Should I feel concerned? I don't want to ask her yet because I don't want to be seemed jumpy.

[Anonymous]

A group photo, he's next to her... My question is what's this group (school, work, so on) and why aren't you there? Is she leaving you aside when this group meets ? I mean you can't invite yourself unless she asks you to go. But if she doesn't then ... it's a problem.

Is there any contact between them like holding eachother in any way ?!

On the other side it might be just him positioning himself next to her. Other guys will be attracted to your girl, to married women. There's plenty of jerks that don't give a crap about the status of a girl they like.

So you should trust her that she's true to you but at the same time try and see what goes on.

[jackson71]

You should be very concerned, but you should not show it or mention it. Don't show you are not confident or even worse, a whiner. What you should do is approach that guy and say, Back off bro. If you suspect anything, and I mean anything between them, sadly I think it's too late. If you have a female friend or sister that is cool as hell, you can have them come up and flirt with him in front of you and your girl. That should give you all the information you need if you watch both their expressions.

[EmeraldSky]

lol, no you shouldn't be concerned. You're doing too much, hun. It's not that big of a deal.

If you're going to get all shaken up over your girl being next to a guy in a picture, then you might as well freak out over her walking next to a guy she's acquainted with or having any male friends for that matter.

Don't say anything: you will come off as insecure and maybe even possessive.

[justbanANNAz]

thats interesting…

look if she's a lovely kind of girl I'm sure he's like a good mate or something, but you might wanna ask her nicely just casual you know, oh who's that guy, he ..[insert some description of how he looks]

then shell tell you and you move on with your conversation at ease :)

[CrazynKinky]

No you should not. Don't make a big deal out of it my best friends a guy and him and I and another friend were hanging out taking pictures and one I had my tongue out and they were all completely innocent and his girlfriend freaked out. It didn't mean anything just friends taking pictures

[MrBond]

Start talking to the guy, be his friend, get inside his mind. If you learn he's crushing on your girl kindly tell him to lay off, and continue being friends. If he doesn't heed your advice make sure you keep an eye on him, and try to be near your girlfriend when he's around. Don't be a dick, don't be aggressive, don't be super protective; just be a presence.

[capncool]

Really not a big deal. I usually take pictures with a lot of my lady friends (even ones with boyfriends) and their boyfriends don't seem to mind it... hell, sometimes the boyfriends are the ones taking the picture. I personally don't have any intention of trying to get with said girls, and said girls likely have the same mindset as me. As CrazynKinky said, just friends taking pictures.

If you ask her it'll be possessive and you'll start an argument over what's essentially nothing.

[Anonymous]

Nothing to worry about. Girl's tend to hide their bits on the side. If he is with her in photos and they are photos you can see then everything is fine. Just chill mate. Trust the girl. Watch the dude of course and anything he does in your presence make sure you top when you're alone with the girl. Of course if he touches her at all feel free to threaten or intervene. Boundaries are boundaries.

[Prof_Don]

Is there something rocky in your relationship dynamic that is making you concerned?

I couldn't imagine you being paranoid over some pics with your girl and a male friend without something else factoring into the equation here!

[Tayler]

I would say let it play out, then if you see something more serious It wouldn't hurt to ask in a nice way.

Maybe ask her how she knows him, are they close, things like that, lay low you don't want to seem clingy or overly concerned, she wouldn't like that.

[Eiffelgirl21]

it depends on how much.

most likely, if your gut says you should be worried, then you should.

just ask her about it.

is there any contact in these photos?

[Opalivian]

Either... best friends or boyfriend or brother or soon to be boyfriend.

It's your decision to do something to know the answer.

[523206720]

ask her before she begins to date that guy. Who cares what you look like? It's a small price to pay.