My boyfriend seems uninterested in me.. please help me.

[xXeyecandybabeXx]

When we talk over the phone he says he loves me.. but this past three days.. he says it but he doesn't sound like he means it.. everything we used to say. like baby I love you.. and sound excited.. nope that happens only so often.. I don't know we've been dating for three months and I'm his first really girlfriend.. I don't know what to do.. I asked him if he still wants to be with me and he says yes. he says he doesn't want to break up.. but why is he acting this way?

[1337Face-MelterDude]

It sounds like you're both really young and just trying to figure things out. I promise, three months is a bit early for even _saying_ those three powerful words.

At this point in the relationship, you guys should just focus in getting to know one another and having fun. As intense as you think your feelings might be, right now, for both of you, they are based on infatuation and ideals of what a 'perfect' relationship/match/soulmate crap/whatever- might be..

True romantic Love comes a little further down the road and even if this one doesn't pan out, you'll eventually see what I mean. Just relax and enjoy each other's company for what it is. I think right now, you're worried over nothing.

[Littletad]

It's just a small phase. Not every guy is going to be constantly the same. Enthusiasm diminishes a little and reality sets in. That's a relationship. Does that mean passion and interest goes away completely? No, it just means it's not at a level it was before. You also notice a difference in his tone of voice, which tells me that you need constant validation and assurance. That's a bad trait. As it seems he's doing nothing really wrong at all. Trust me I used to have ex's who would feel this way and it babbled me at first. But girls sometimes need a lot of assurance that the relationship is fine. But trust me, more than half the time, everything really is fine.

[that_one_girl]

Is there anything going on in his life? End of school? Parents? Friends?

If it's only been 3 days I wouldn't worry. He could have other stresses in his life. Ask him if everything is okay with him. DO NOT ask if there is anything wrong with the relationship, I bet there isn't. Just be there for him if there are outside problems. He could even be just tired. Give the poor guy a break.

If it is still seeming to be a bit weird after a few WEEKS then I would suspect, but 3 days?

[xXeyecandybabeXx]

Thank you...u really did help :)