myTakes: Relationships

If you’re like me, you spend hours playing video games. AND you have a girlfriend who wishes you spent more time with her and less time playing “stupid” video games. So how do I stop his addiction to video games? She has...

Recently I noticed something interesting about myself. I follow a national newspaper on Facebook and they do lots of posts about feminism and sexism from a female perspective. I read a lot of the comments on these posts...

Okay, people get really hung up on cheating, but it isn't a big deal. It can actually be a great test of a relationship. Think about it. Why does cheating seem bad? Because it hurts our feelings. But what are our...

An unfortunate reality for many people is that they wait too long to find a mate. Maybe this is because they're picky and want their 'perfect' relationship or maybe they're career driven or maybe they just enjoy being...

There are varied versions, and those who always denigrate Christian / Catholic persons... but here is the basic story; Valentine was a Priest, who refused to stop marrying people under Christ. He was arrested, and intead...

Omg he/she friendzoned me? Most people just assume that they're in the "friendzone" because their crush said something like "we´re such good friends"... to those people: you are not in the friendzone! You are just looking...

One day my good friend came up to me he said "How do I get (insert name) to like me, "I just mess everything up." I don't understand why we as a society want to give love so much without loving ourselves first. If none...

I often see people accusing others (most often the opposite sex, though this actually can happen in other types of social relationship as well) of entitlement.  Sometimes, they are quite correct.  Some guys think they're...

I put on my robe and my wizard hat - BloodNinja So sexting you may think its a harmless pastime but i'm going to dis agree. You may say to yourself that sexting is harmless because you aren't actually touching the other...

"Trying too hard will get you  nowhere " "For someone who has had a lot experience dealing with my (ex) GF's parents, I find it all too common that you'll be far too forward and "fake" with them."  --- Kleinteef (yes, I...

Every human on the planet is searching for a companion and most of them have over the years walked over too many bridges which has left thinking that maybe they aren't good enough. Doubts and fear cloud judgement and as...

People have changed the meaning of love in nowadays life. I respect all people. But there is no true love. For example, as you see there are many couples and they say they love each other etc etc... But they are just in...

Ok youngins, LISTEN UP! The friend zone exists. I know some of you are in denial that it doesn't exist just because of the silly way it is named but it does exist. You can write your articles justifying how it is complete...

I believe in destiny. My story begins in kindergarden. I fell in love at first sight with a beautiful red-head in my class named Rebecca. We quickly became friends, and our friendship grew and grew. I feel Rebecca was...

Former US President Clinton's Secretary of State had a strong point.  Apart from faith, nothing comes about without hard work. So why does it matter to strive?  Well why shouldn't it?  Everything we do requires...

I have seen many questions on G@G related to personality vs. looks. So... I just wanted to clear it once and for all! #LOOKS vs. #PERSONALITY Definitions: Looks: have the appearance or give the impression of being....

Note: I don't really believe in the friendzone . This is simply me reminiscing my past as a "nice guy" and what I learned from not being upfront. Chapter 1: Mr. Nice Guy I) Touching while calling you buddy She had this...

What’s been most interesting for me is the time since publishing an article about compatibility in December 2011.  Shortly before submitting it, I started to feel like I wasn’t saying anything significant or different,...

So, I’ve spoken about flirting, about love, about keeping a conversation going…. Yes, I’ve checked those off, but here is one that bugs me. Players! Now, sure, I know how it’s done. Have I used it once or twice? Sure. On...

Sometimes the best way to handle things is just to let go. I've found that I am the person everyone goes to when they need someone to talk to. I've often asked myself why that is, why do they come to me and not other...